is there a line where your playing TO HARD to get?

[christz]

so i was wondering since i'm begnning to see the signs of decreaseing intrest from this girl i've liked for a while now is there a line where your just to much of a challenge or playing to hard to get and the girl just takes that as a hint that your not intrested in her? i mean this girl calls me or actually did call me at least 6 times a day, and if she said she'd call back she woudl call back within hours if not minutes of when she said she would, now she just doesn't do it at all, this has been going on for the past 3 days

i mean i've let this girl chase me for quite some time now, she called me i never called her, i've never asked her to hang out i'd only let her say something to the intent that she wants to. and i've never complimented her save for a few rare occasions.

well now it seems that she is becoming less and less intrested in me, and i'm thinking its because i've shown little to no effort on my end. i mean what's the best approach to kinda reverse this backwards approach and let her know i do like her.

 

[Wyldfire]

Sounds like you only want her now because you sense she doesn't want you anymore.

She's probably met someone else who actually wants her for the right reasons. If she has, she's not going to give that up for someone who didn't think she was good enough before...unless she's an idiot, that is.

If you like someone, make a move on them. If you don't show interest the other person WILL lose interest in you.

 

[christz]

you know i never even sat down and looked at it like that, But i will say that i do like her legitmitlly except that i dunno i was kinda mind fu*ked by the last girl I dated a year ago, and it made me overly cautious and way to defensive about everything.

i dunno if she exactly met another guy but I am certian that she thinks i don't like her times she's called that i honestly was gonna call her i would mention it and she would just say riiight sure you were.. Like she was irritated. Even a time she wanted me to come over i said i'm just gonna goto sleep she got somewhat pissed.

But in all actuality i do like and her and would like a suggestion or two to actually show her without saying it. You think asking her if she wants to hang out is a good starter? her new attitude only started 4 days ago so i know its not to late.

and i know she wants me to chase her but that would make me look weak in a females perspective. How do i know? because i called her thanksgiving and wished her a happy thanksgiving. i could tell she got an ear to ear grin on her face. i swear she hangs up the phone just to see if i will call her back, and then i don't and she is convinced that i'm not intrested when in fact its totally the oppisite