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Is there a difference?

ChrizZ

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Hi,

Let me tell you my story:

I´m 17 years old and I´m from Germany. Where I come from it is really hard to talk to girls. Girls NEVER approach you here. It seems like they don´t want a bf. They always hang around in groups and you NEVER see them alone.

When I was 16 I was a foreign exchange student in the US. My first school day was like heaven. I felt like Hugh Heffner. The chicks were all over me. I gotta say that was the best year of my life. I never had a girlfriend before back in Germany. In the US though, at the end of the year I had 7 (!) girlfriends. I´m not talking about ugly girls, I´m talking about HB 8+. Don´t get me wrong here, I don´t wanna sound arrogant or something, but chicks even wanted me to sign there breasts in school.:yes: I really think that girls in Germany are way harder to talk to than American chicks.

Do you guys think that there is a difference between American and European chicks?
 

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Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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no, there is no difference, i've lived in germany. the only difference between american chicks and german chiks for you is that the american chiks are attracted to you cause your different
 

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A lot of chicks here in Germany are also attracted to me, but they don´t approach me. In America the girls approached me all the time though. They were way more outgoing and horny :cheer:
 

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ChrizZ said:
I really think that girls in Germany are way harder to talk to than American chicks.
The ONLY reason they liked you is cuz you had a thick German (foreign) accent.

Exotic = erotic.

Trust me - I saw the same thing happen at a local bar where a bunch of Limeys were over. Holy shyt you would have thought they were rock stars the way the local girls were hanging all over them!

They were NOT like this with any of the local American guys, though. Therefore, it wasn't the girls, it was you and your positive foreign status.
 

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ChrizZ said:
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Do you guys think that there is a difference between American and European chicks?
In approaching? Depends what part of Europe you are in. Most of the time, no, except maybe in a high school setting.

I do love my European girls though. I feel that they cook better than most American girls. ;)
 

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The ONLY reason they liked you is cuz you had a thick German (foreign) accent.
I highly doubt that was the only reason. I wasn´t the only foreign exchange student there. They ignored the other foreigners.I tried the C+F stuff etc. I had great game, but here in Germany it seems like they don´t have a sense of humor because they´re only looking for the most popular guys with the most influence. I think that´s the ONLY thing they´re looking for. I also think one more reason why chicks in High School are more outgoing is because of high school sports. The school spirit brings people together. I still remember the friday night football games when everybody from school was there. It´s way easier to socialise then and get to know chicks...
 

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Yea, you probably have the accent factor, that will work in any modernized country.
 
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