jhonny9546
Master Don Juan
Hi there, Johnny here.
So, they say that people can actually have low or high self-esteem.
That said, what interest more us on sosuave, is that there's a lot of talk about how women who create a lot of drama are those who have low self-esteem, insecurity issues.
So, it's easier for these women to get stuck without an exit door, into relationships with men who leave an emotional imprint on them, and then they can't let go in any way. Once a man can establish a seed in a mind of one of these insecure/low self esteem women, He's done. It's like crack or drugs for the woman
That said, according to this saying, the fact that a woman meets a man who leaves her with trauma or an emotional imprint only happens to women with low self-esteem.
But.. Is that really true?
This means that there are women who will have the high self esteem and self respect to pull the trigger or simply walk away from a relationship with a "toxic" man.
So, they say that people can actually have low or high self-esteem.
That said, what interest more us on sosuave, is that there's a lot of talk about how women who create a lot of drama are those who have low self-esteem, insecurity issues.
So, it's easier for these women to get stuck without an exit door, into relationships with men who leave an emotional imprint on them, and then they can't let go in any way. Once a man can establish a seed in a mind of one of these insecure/low self esteem women, He's done. It's like crack or drugs for the woman
That said, according to this saying, the fact that a woman meets a man who leaves her with trauma or an emotional imprint only happens to women with low self-esteem.
But.. Is that really true?
This means that there are women who will have the high self esteem and self respect to pull the trigger or simply walk away from a relationship with a "toxic" man.
Rosie and her boyfriend Joe have been together for 2 years.
Rosie had put on some weight and lately she feels insecure.
Joe treats her like shyt, He disrespects her , but she loves him more than anything else.
Joe no longer has sex with her, and ogles other women even when she's around.
Is there anything Rosie could do to get Joe to respect her and treat her like a woman?
Yes.
She could;
1) Loose some weight.
2) Work on her self esteem.
3) Give herself a makeover
4) Completely ignore Joe aka " the 180."
5) "Man up ," and Stop taking disrespect from Joe,
She is not doing this so that Joe will respect her, she is doing it because she needs it.
So, if Joe continues to treat her badly , she is confident enough to dump him and MOVE ON.
After that dysfunctional relationship, having done some work on herself, she is now in a better position to demand respect and set proper boundaries in her new relationship.
Rosie is now a stronger, more independent thinking woman.
Let's say Rosie have higher self respect now.
But what most insecure or low self esteem women would do right now?
You know, they will start the drama and try harder with s3x to control/manipulate him, and feel validated by that.
Rosie had put on some weight and lately she feels insecure.
Joe treats her like shyt, He disrespects her , but she loves him more than anything else.
Joe no longer has sex with her, and ogles other women even when she's around.
Is there anything Rosie could do to get Joe to respect her and treat her like a woman?
Yes.
She could;
1) Loose some weight.
2) Work on her self esteem.
3) Give herself a makeover
4) Completely ignore Joe aka " the 180."
5) "Man up ," and Stop taking disrespect from Joe,
She is not doing this so that Joe will respect her, she is doing it because she needs it.
So, if Joe continues to treat her badly , she is confident enough to dump him and MOVE ON.
After that dysfunctional relationship, having done some work on herself, she is now in a better position to demand respect and set proper boundaries in her new relationship.
Rosie is now a stronger, more independent thinking woman.
Let's say Rosie have higher self respect now.
But what most insecure or low self esteem women would do right now?
You know, they will start the drama and try harder with s3x to control/manipulate him, and feel validated by that.
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