"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Is Taylor Swift - Borderline Personality Disorder

Is Taylor Swift BPD

  • Yes

    Votes: 10 66.7%
  • No

    Votes: 3 20.0%
  • Other - she is weird but that's just millenial

    Votes: 2 13.3%

  • Total voters
    15

bigneil

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Pretty standard BPD story. It amazes me how similar they all are.
You've had better, right? Your BPD had 20 top 10 hits instead of 19?

As a photographer, here are some photos I personally took of Taylor Swift from the 10th row in Houston circa May 2012. She's a goddess.







 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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skinnyguy

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She has a strong personality which is what has led to her financial success. However that is often bad for relationships. Always being dominant can lead to a lot of breakups.

She's a mentally insane person who will continue being successful in business because of her acumen. See: Donald trump.
 
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