Is she ready ?

[Yohan Van der Smut]

Ive been interested in this colleague from work for while now

SCENARIO
Used to get along really well; stimulating conversation, good eye contact, little flirting, little kino, similar scale in looks we are both about 8s.

I used to reward her by dropping her home everynow and a then when she was bubbley enough to deserve it.

She left herself open to being asked out a couple of times and i acted disinterested.

Eventually she started to stop interacting with me as much as she used to (actually it was more like overnight), I took it in my stride and began to treat her the same way. This has created a little bit of tension between us. ( I think this is good cos it puts me outside the friendzone ? - been ongoing for about 6 months)

Recently we have got to talking and interacting more, mainly to do with work (she has been approaching me), I have been slipping in strong eye contact and have always maintained politeness. Occasionally i have caught her peering over at me from behind some corner.

PROBLEM

Recently i was playing with a digital camera and saw her walking down the aisle. So I snapped a photo of her (just mucking around) and she turned around and walked back in the other direction ( hmm I sensed she was pissed but didnt approach her with an apology cos it seemed like a big overeaction on her part [although i did get a nice photo of her booty])

MY APPROACH

The next time i see her will be tomorrow (4 days from the above incident)

I want to ask her out to dinner. Now I wonder what would be going on in her head will she think "He must be trying to apologize" or would she think "Geez this guy has some nerve, I cant believe he has the balls to ask me out"
Anyhow the desired objective is to score a date with this girl who i think maybe ripe for the picking.

If she blows me off I plan on saying "Thats ok,......Well I wanted to talk to you anyway. I appear to have upset you the other day when i was mucking around with that camera, I just wanted to apologize ' and walk off.

( Note I have never apologized to this girl before on any other ocassion so hopefully it would have the right effect)

ps I hate apologizing to woman

Opinions? Comments ? All welcome ?

 

[DJDamage]

Don't date women from work. It ain't worth it. If something goes wrong you might have to find a new job and its harder to find a good job you like, then a good woman.

I used to reward her by dropping her home everynow and a then when she was bubbley enough to deserve it.

You didn't reward her but you rather supplicated to her. Rewarding her is after she sucked your d1ck. Since that never happen she didn't do anything special to be rewarded.

PROBLEM

Recently i was playing with a digital camera and saw her walking down the aisle. So I snapped a photo of her (just mucking around) and she turned around and walked back in the other direction ( hmm I sensed she was pissed but didnt approach her with an apology cos it seemed like a big overeaction on her part [although i did get a nice photo of her booty])

You take a picture of her and she walked back without saying a word?? on my planet it is a bad sign a very bad sign, nothing to gloat over.

I want to ask her out to dinner. Now I wonder what would be going on in her head will she think "He must be trying to apologize" or would she think "Geez this guy has some nerve, I cant believe he has the balls to ask me out"
Anyhow the desired objective is to score a date with this girl who i think maybe ripe for the picking.

Don't appologoize. In actuality you don't even know what is going on in this chick's head because you have a poor rapport with her. You are only assuming what is going on (didn't someone ever tell you never to assume anything? you either right or wrong.)

If she blows me off I plan on saying "Thats ok,......Well I wanted to talk to you anyway. I appear to have upset you the other day when i was mucking around with that camera, I just wanted to apologize ' and walk off.

If she blows you off and takes it badley be ready to defend yourself when she goes to your boss and b1tch. I am sure your boss would also like to know what are you doing on company time taking pictures of her and asking her out for dinner. You would be surprised how vicious some women get in the office environment.

hey I could be wrong and it could all turn out to be a nice dream but for the most part it usually end up becoming a nightmare.

DjDamage

 

[OpenMind]

IS SHE READY? after reading this I hate to make your day and tell you that this is over before it began. The real question here is... ARE YOU AWARE THAT YOU AREN'T READY? Men don't think, they do. You have thought way too much about this one, and i promise you that she knows it.. next time act like a man, don't think about things so much... it turns women off.....

p.s. why would you even think about apologizing???? what on earth are you apologizing for???