"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is she interested in me or what?

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Groovy

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I think that it was in here that I read "If you think she may be interrested, then she probably is".

I think that assuming that she indeed is interrested makes a nice effect. :yes:
 

No Leaf Clover

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Thanks for the feedback guys. She's not disrespecting me. She's actually very nice. I really said some things I shouldn't have.

I'll give her like 2 or 3 weeks and report back.
 

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"I only gave you my number because I was trashed."

You let her talk to you like that? I think she's a cvnt and you should next her.
 

No Leaf Clover

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Actually, last time I talked to her she said she doesn't just give her number out to anybody, so I dunno lol
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I think she could have been using you to make the guy she was with jealous or to test him. You just provided her the opportunity to do so by merely calling at that time.
 
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