"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Is she a narcissist?

JohnyTheArrow

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Sometimes she doesn't want any 'alpha', she wants and needs beta and if you are not she will do everything do turn you into this little pathethic man.Beware of these women.

Narcistic Disorder is cluster B personality disorder.

Red Flags :

- trying to make you feel insignificant
- you are never good enough
- belittlening
- disrespect
- silent treatments
- trying to make you jealous
- fragile ego
- it is always your fault
- entitlement
- need for constant attention and adoration
- envious
- manipulative
- exploitative
- lack of empathy
- your needs means nothing to them

Wondered how this hot woman can be with this pathethic man ? It's a narcist and his victim.Don't envy him feel sorry about him, every day he is emotionally abused and treated like doormat.Narcists need to belittle and disrespect to feel good about themselves.Narcists are unable to love, if you are not willing to submit and become their doormat they will wait for you to fall in love and then torture you.The lack any empathy and you can expect unhuman treatment when they will discard you.
To win with the narcist you must do what they fear most - abondon them like a piece of garbage before she will.There is no way to fix these people because they are highly functional sociopaths.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Lozboss

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JohnyTheArrow said:
Sometimes she doesn't want any 'alpha', she wants and needs beta and if you are not she will do everything do turn you into this little pathethic man.Beware of these women.

Narcistic Disorder is cluster B personality disorder.

Red Flags :

- trying to make you feel insignificant
- you are never good enough
- belittlening
- disrespect
- silent treatments
- trying to make you jealous
- fragile ego
- it is always your fault
- entitlement
- need for constant attention and adoration
- envious
- manipulative
- exploitative
- lack of empathy
- your needs means nothing to them

Wondered how this hot woman can be with this pathethic man ? It's a narcist and his victim.Don't envy him feel sorry about him, every day he is emotionally abused and treated like doormat.Narcists need to belittle and disrespect to feel good about themselves.Narcists are unable to love, if you are not willing to submit and become their doormat they will wait for you to fall in love and then torture you.The lack any empathy and you can expect unhuman treatment when they will discard you.
To win with the narcist you must do what they fear most - abondon them like a piece of garbage before she will.There is no way to fix these people because they are highly functional sociopaths.
And sometimes you must be a Victim of a BPD to truly open your eyes.

The truth is there will always be short term betas for the BPD and Narcissists. But in the end they will end up alone as their SMV drops with age.
 

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Everybody in western culture in the 21st century is a narcissist.-
 

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What does it matter what label you put on her or anyone?

She may be a narcissist. She may not.

He may be pathetic. Maybe he's not.

But he's with her and you're not.

And you can't stand it. So what do we label you?
 

MountainSlide

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She's probably flirting with Johnny and luring him into her web, like a spider. You could fake beta, hit it and quit it sonn. Woo woooo. Don't be a fool though, she is seeking out some new form of validation. Right now you may look like a desirable source of narcissistic supply. You feed this need, tell her about how amazing she is (better to be half cut while your doing this I find because you will be more convincing). But make sure you have a couple other girls on the side and use them intermittently so that you don't become emotionally attached to this crazy *****. Probably better just to walk away before entering the world of drama though.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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stevo

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Lozboss said:
And sometimes you must be a Victim of a BPD to truly open your eyes.
Having experienced these evil creatures, anyone thinking this way is fooling themselves.

You are better off having your eyes open without dealing with these creatures.


If they hook their fins in you for a long time, you'd start to crave their fix long after you've been rescued.


It's easier to RUN away from these creatures before you fcuk them. Before you get even 1% invested in them.


They are the Jezebels of our days, remember what happened to Samson? Pretty almost perfect looking creatures who would make a man almost jump off a bridge.

Damn! I'm now understanding that Bible story. Poor Samson.
 
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