Dhoulmagus
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Is our libido the Achilles Heel of Man?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Is ***** really worth this ****
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Maximus Rex
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That's a personal problem, bruh.
logicallefty
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I think it is. I've posted about this subject before. Where would women be if guys didn't need sex? If men today had no reason to give women the resources, breaks, jobs, and others things they don't rightfully earn? Makes me laugh to think about it.
Tictac
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"The very thing that makes her rich, makes you poor"
Ry Cooder
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Dhoulmagus
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Exactly and they know this is true too.
Dhoulmagus
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I have thought of this, will this do permanent damage to my body?
El Payaso
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You will have to speak with your doctor about that. All I know is that it makes some men less desperate for women.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
taiyuu_otoko
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SS: Doc, I've got this runaway libido problem.
Doc: I see. Bang two hookers and come back next week.
PeasantPlayer
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If the majority of men controlled their libidios, how would women adapt? I always found that interesting
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........ usually a side effect of modern SSRIs but god damn who would ever want that. Just go jerk off for gods sake.
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Short answer: no.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
i never had so much as a kiss until I was 26. I had a woman that I was crazy about, but when she would not help me pay the bills, it was bye-bye. If you wait, and if you are worthy, good things will come to you. if you let the little head do the "thinking", you'll ruin your life. You dont NEED sex. You want it. Babies can't tell the difference.
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If a girl is s.hit testing u and giving u attitude, remind her uv got other girls on ur phone, lay down the law, women bank on being the only female u can get, remind them that this isnt so, i've done this with great success!
logicallefty
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^^Exactly!
Also, I can speak first hand about the sex drive thing. I have a fairly low sex drive compared to most men. Once a week is plenty and once every other week is doable. Maybe a fap or two in between. Can I have sex more than this? Sure.... But I'll be honest I enjoy it more after the 1-2 weeks without. If i do it everyday, it becomes dull and boring really fast, with any woman. It has driven almost every woman I have ever had completely mad and they have all said they have never seen a guy who didn't want sex all the time. I know of one for sure who cheated on me over it. Is it a blessing or a curse? If you compare me to the guy who wants it all the time and has full control over his relationships, then compared to him my deal would be a curse.. But now compare me to the guy who wants it all the time and lets his woman completely walk all over him and treat him like a pawn, then I am one blessed SOB.
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The Achilles Heel of a Man is the part his mother hold when dipping him in the river of immortality.
This is a personal question and it depends on your education. Most men today are miseducated by single mothers and suffer the absence of a father figure to make them true warriors.
Libido is not a problem. Inability to control your libido is a problem. Inability to use your brain is the same problem.
Achilles was a true hero. He could not care less about women. His Achilles Heel was his heel not his libido.
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Sexted a chick to death the other night. She was sending me nudes and she came over. one thing led to another, but she said she was super horny and still had a few days left on her period. She was literally trying to shove my member inside. My response....."get off me woman, you're on your period". "if you're this horny for me now, you can wait and come back on wednesday". Texts have been rolling in non stop to let me know when shes coming over. Shoot them down once and keep frame and they know they cant control you with sex, they will try to please you 24/7.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.