Is it women's fault??

[CapedCrusader08]

And I mean this a different p.o.v from what you are thinking. I can't elaborate now,have to get ready.

 

[DarkShade]

I think it's society's fault, including the feminist movement.

I've read the differences of methodologies between Plato and Rousseau and realized that the focus on the individual (women, for example) has corrupted the society we live in, and there isn't enough focus on the balance of society vs. individual.

Unfortunately these things don't change very quickly, so we're all in for a rough ride (so to speak)

 

[DonGorgon]

Its capitalism's fault...

 

[chinwaggler]

It's gonzo's fault

 

[Relationship-Buddy]

It is certainly the Media's manipulations and convolutions = Media's Fault.

 

[cockerdumbnuts]

Na, Bush f ucked this one up all by himself.

 

[DJVladdy]

Whats women's fault?

that we're players and macks?

 

[SomethingClever]

I agree with DarkShade, it's society and the romantics fault. If it weren't for them, us men wouldn't be ashamed of acting manly. Also, if it weren't for them, we wouldn't need forums like this.

 

[CapedCrusader08]

mm,I meant for how certain things are socially between men and women. I am coming from a somewhat bitter p.o.v. Societies fault how? Romantics fault how? How does one act manly? Give me some examples. I mean,I go to school,I work,etc. What more do I,or they,need? I am angry mostly at those more successful than me you could say.

 

[SharinganUser]

It's evolutions fault. Society is simply a manifestation of how people have evolved as a collective.

Your father was man enough to bang atleast one woman, that means you should too.

 

[DarkShade]

mm,I meant for how certain things are socially between men and women. I am coming from a somewhat bitter p.o.v. Societies fault how? Romantics fault how? How does one act manly? Give me some examples. I mean,I go to school,I work,etc. What more do I,or they,need? I am angry mostly at those more successful than me you could say.

Being angry at the ones who have success are the ones tho say "Don't hate the playa, hate the game." The game they are talking about is society, they work their 'magic' to get what they want and people hate on them for that, when they are really just setting themselves up for success without regard for anything else, including how they look to others.

Read up a bit on how the feminist/women's movement mindfvcked a lot of women (and some men), and now we have an entire generation of males who are born to single females, being raised by single females, and learning how to be a man by a single female. Why? Mostly because divorce rates are through the roof, the men caught up in it generally have no choice but to leave the family, or the very smart men don't marry (or they get a prenup). The divorce rates are through the roof because the feminist movement taught women how to be men, and the aftereffect is that they think they know everything, and can do everything. The poor boys born into these marriages get the bad end of the stick right off the bat, considering a female has no idea how to be a man, let alone teach a male how to be a man. Luckily there's places and outlets to find this stuff out (this place being one of them), but what boys/young men really need is a male mentor type, be it a father, guardian, teacher, whatever, to help them along manhood. The biggest problem with families right now is the woman's role being totally displaced and destroyed the meaning of family.

So is anyone telling them they are doing it wrong? No, they get reinforced by the likes of Oprah Winfrey and her merry legion of soulless marketers, by Cosmopolitan magazine, by their feminized friends, and feminized family. The mention of masculinity and testosterone are forbidden and taboo subjects of conversation and must be quelled!

 

[CapedCrusader08]

Yeah. See,I haven't found or figured out my magic,if that makes sense.

Oh,I realize how feminism mind f'd women and screwed things up. Hell,I am starting to see women as dumber than men in general. Even non feminist ones. I was not born to a single parent. I grew up with both parents,looking back, either I didn't learn on my own,or no one taught me,"how to be a man",and in all honesty,I still feel like I am this kid. It could be a maturity problem. This has me concerned. Esp in the dating dept.

As for "non masculinity",idk,that was never a problem for me. I mean,I never encountered that anti/counter thing. I feel I am unable to make those "romantic connections" so to say. Sort of like described in here:
http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=65XVyVm1Wq0&feature=related

I mean,I feel so behind in that I feel emotionally disturbed I would say over the fact I didn't get any action in high school,and none in college. I have only slept with 2 girls. How I got them is beyond me. Well,one I met online. I feel I have wasted so much time that I can't get over it.

 

[insidious]

I blame it on the Industrial Revolution.
Things have never been the same.

Man's warrior spirit has been subjegated. We sit on our ass all day and get fat and bury ourselves in consumerist B.S. We don't have to fight for anything, we can buy buy buy...buy pleasure, buy satisfaction, quenching our hunger, our thrist, without a thought as to where we fit in the chain of life.

Sure, yeah, blame women, blame them all you want. Women have only gotten away with what men have allowed, which is a ****load. Modern man has lost his soul, his warrior spirit and in so doing has allowed women out of the cage and he will never tame her again.

 

[CapedCrusader08]

hmm.interesting point. I am also wondering,how much of these problems have been how I presented myself in the past. Such as actions/behaviors.

 

[everywomanshero]

Is what womens' faults? I think I missed the question.

 

[CapedCrusader08]

well,alot of things. but I don't have time to describe it now. it's social things mostly,having too high standards,being too picky,cliquey,using things against you,teaming up with there ***** freinds for back,there ***** freinds. hell,after reading alot on this site,rather than improving myself,I am actually more bitter and skeptical towards women.

Of course,if I had the ball in my court,I would feel different.

 

[DonGorgon]

Everything ties back to money and then back to sex... hense capitalism... YOU DONT HAVE TO BELIEVE IT BUT YOU WILL DAMN WELL LIVE IT!

 

[CapedCrusader08]

yeah. that's part of what I am saying.