Is it such a bad thing to take things slow?

[solo1]

There are a couple girls im interested in in a few of my classes. Im usually pretty friendly to them but that's it, or sometimes crack some jokes . Great rapport already.

From day 1 they had high IL and it still appears that they do. I havent made my intentions clear, but in a way im keeping them hooked on my fishing line.

If chances are good ill ask them out.
Any thoughts?

 

[Mr. Cardio]

I dont know what you are doing around these girls, but hey, do you use SS, its not what most people here say it is, I have heard a lot of bad things about it but its just not true, take a day reading it and you will be able to connect with girls easily and of course, get a lay as well.

 

[DinoCassanova]

Great. Once you have rapport like that, I've always found you can start getting a little more "raunchy" w/your humour and see how that goes. That's what I've been doing lately for the past few months, in situations w/girls. Say something about a threesome when they're both sitting there for instance. And then if one of them says, what ?? or something like that, just say, I said your hair looks great. That usually makes them laugh. Or pick the one you really want to go out with and just say to her, What time are you picking me up tonight then?? If nothing else you'll keep them laughing, but you'll also let them know you've got balls and you are str8 and (at least a little bit) interested, thereby avoiding the "just friends" zone.