joe45
Senior Don Juan
ok is it just me or is finding a gf or even a date a hard thing. 24 yr old never had gf or dated before. before i was shy and quiet guy, now changing and being more talktive to ppl but still lack freinds to hang out with- mostly ppl who are aquiatances-classmates. to u guys is it really hard to find a date or gf for the typical college guy or is it just me not trying hard enough.
yes i read in an article about gals apporaching guys and askin em out...... well this never ever happened to me. what do u do. i have posted my pic here before and most ppl sayt i am avg to good looking.
some ppl tell me to be freinds with the gal first then ask her out others say jsut ask her out after small talk ... so hard to even figure out of askign out for a date and finding a gf or even a date.
the thing is i never even had a female freind before in my life i have had guy friends but not many just one or 2 close ones, i wish i was a groupie once in my life.
ppl tell me to join clubs, org.... i done it did it -most ppl end up being aquitances and not freinds so whats the use. ppl these days seem to have thier own life and freinds and don't want to hang out with me for some reason.
i do make sacrasatic comments- an exdample, not sure if its turning em off.
john-i have a freind who has 3 tests in one day
me-wow luckly guy hey
john-wowo the story we have to read this week is long hey-(10 pages story)
me-yea they should have made a novel out of it
basically i am asking is making freinds and gettin a date or even gf really hard these days or is it just me-weird , sacrastic personaltity. i also laugh at my own jokes that i make -not sure if the person would think it is funny or not. maybe that turns ppl off
yes i read in an article about gals apporaching guys and askin em out...... well this never ever happened to me. what do u do. i have posted my pic here before and most ppl sayt i am avg to good looking.
some ppl tell me to be freinds with the gal first then ask her out others say jsut ask her out after small talk ... so hard to even figure out of askign out for a date and finding a gf or even a date.
the thing is i never even had a female freind before in my life i have had guy friends but not many just one or 2 close ones, i wish i was a groupie once in my life.
ppl tell me to join clubs, org.... i done it did it -most ppl end up being aquitances and not freinds so whats the use. ppl these days seem to have thier own life and freinds and don't want to hang out with me for some reason.
i do make sacrasatic comments- an exdample, not sure if its turning em off.
john-i have a freind who has 3 tests in one day
me-wow luckly guy hey
john-wowo the story we have to read this week is long hey-(10 pages story)
me-yea they should have made a novel out of it
basically i am asking is making freinds and gettin a date or even gf really hard these days or is it just me-weird , sacrastic personaltity. i also laugh at my own jokes that i make -not sure if the person would think it is funny or not. maybe that turns ppl off