Is it really that easy?

[Buick]

I'm reading alot of these replies, and alot seem like 'You say this, and this, and this, then get her number.' Is it really that easy/
If I met a chick somewhere and just started talking to her for like 5 minutes, I could get her number in that time?
Does looks have alotto do with it? I'm decent loking at best, I've had a few girls tell me I'm cute or whatver, but I'm not sure i could get a chicks number like that? i dunno

 

[The Shocker]

looks does, sure, but also what matters is body language, the way you dress, the way you smile, the general "look" you ooze.

One girl I'm thinking about seeing right now told me she has been interested in me since homecoming, because at a party after I "looked so cool and fun." I probably said two words to her then besides hello.

The "look" is what matters most.

 

[Plec07]

I believe it's the ammount of confidence you convey that really matters when getting her number. But you also need to give her a small taste of excitement and leave her wanting more to make sure she doesn't flake.

 

[Snow Plowman]

Yes it's that easy...What really matters is...

- Your Voice
- Eye contact
- Body Language
- Personality (Confident, unpredictable, humor)

Your looks doesn't matter with the type of attraction you are getting. A lot of people don't know the attraction we are really using is the emotion "Attraction" not physical attraction.

That said yes you can get a # quickly. (More likely to flake since its not solid) Kissing usually happens in under 10 minutes. Sex takes a few hours spent together which may take a few days because you may not have time to hangout that same day.

But yes most people make it harder than it seems.