"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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is it normal to be uncomfortable?

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whenever im with a girl, i feel very uneasy and uncomfortable. i really dont know why.. i've tried relaxing, but it really does'nt help.

im just not very comfortable around women.. any ideas? any response would be great.. because i dont wanna be in any more discomfort, it prevents me from actually having fun.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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JT47319

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Associate with tons of women.

Eventually you will be comfortable. But probably not without weirding out a few girls.
 

DJ_Dork

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go up to uglier/fatter girls then, you gotta start off somewhere.
 

biker_gixxer

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Perfectly normal to be uncomfortable around women, if you're a WUSS. You're not a WUSS are you? No? GOOD! Now, act like it.

What are you afraid of? Girls not likeing you or what their opionion might be of you? Who cares! Stop trying to gain womens approval or say the right things. Do what you want, when you want, to hell with what 'she' or anyone else thinks.

Want to stop being uncomfortable? Know that you're a MAN and that you're the dominate sex, not women. When a woman comes across a guy that knows his role as a man and behaves in this fashion, she does what comes natural to her, she submits. Trust me on this one. I've had some very hot girls 'submit' to me simply by carrying myself as a true 'alpha' male.
 
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