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And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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Is it me or are brunettes just easy?

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I notice that when it comes to chasing white girls, I have such an easy time gaming higher quality when I am going for a brunette as opposed to a ginger or a blonde. Like for the effort I would have to put in to get a brunette that is an 8, I would get a blonde or ginger that is a 6.

My city has plenty of blondes and a redhead here and there too but overall, easy mix of blondes (fake and real) than brunettes.

Yet here is what I find, I have it way easier with brunettes, they are most of my matches on dating apps. I matched with this one girl with dark hair and a tan.

A few weeks ago, I went to a strip club and this skinny brunette who looked like Emily Ratatowski (however you spell it) approached me, gave me a lapdance, took me to the backroom and let me suck on her nips and even threw her puzzy in my face.... Never had a stripper do that much for me.

But is is like I find gaming brunettes just as easy as gaming girls that aren't white. For the record, I am a brown guy (Indian) so I am not even white.

I find Italian chicks to be the easiest of them all and everyone tells me they are picky. But I have an easy time with tanned brunettes in general, no matter where they are from. Even smashed this one woman from Denmark who had dark hair and a tan.

The thing is I do not get these mad IOIs or online dating successes with blondes and redheads than I do with brunettes, like when I go for a brunette I rarely have to put the work in unless she is really hot and even then, I smash.

Are brunettes just easy?
 

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I used to always have the best luck with blondes - as I stated in the opposites attract thread, which was about how fair haired girls go for dark haired guys and vice versa. Obviously that doesn't match your experience here, so maybe something else is at play.
 

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A few weeks ago, I went to a strip club and this skinny brunette who looked like Emily Ratatowski (however you spell it) approached me, gave me a lapdance, took me to the backroom and let me suck on her nips and even threw her puzzy in my face....
wait... you got attention from a woman... who is paid to give you attention... umm she did not "approach you", she was paid to do it wherether you are 20 or 80 150lb or 400

OP, you need a new crack pipe
 

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Bottle blondes have the lowest esteem and therefore are the least stuck up.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Only thing I can think of

A you probably prefer the blondes whether you realize it or not and thus you’re natrally more aloof and relaxed with even the hot brunettes

B could be culturally specific to where you live or even down to where you frequent when you go out. Maybe you’re just in places that puts more value on blondes and inflates their egos towards being pickier

Ditto on the strip club thing. I was never really a big fan of them but every time I go into one, there’s always one or 2 that makes a b line for me. I was in one in Jersey (tons of hot strippers) not long ago where a girl that couldn’t have been more than 19 with a European accent wouldn’t leave my side as soon as I walked in and I was there with friends. Had to tell her to buzz off. Almost felt bad
Probably that.

But I mean dammit, I am tired of smashing women with the same kind of look.
 
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