"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Is it good to play the waiting game back?

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tomwesten27

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You text a new girl. You have been on a few dates already with her. Sometime she decides to respond 12-24 hours later. When she does finally respond, should I read her text and then wait to respond the next day? Or is that just playing an unnecessary game?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I hate that and call them out on it. Unless she is 10/10 I wouldn't bother. I'm just impatient though. I had one girl waiting a whole day to respond to things and she just missed out on being invited on the boat or pregaming/tailgating.

I said she acted like a high schooler and deleted her number
 
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