Travel memoir21
Master Don Juan
Let’s hear you guy’s opinion on this? Is Father’s Day a DJ Holiday? What do you guys think our communities can improve to enhance this Holiday? Happy Fathers Day to all the Dads in here by the way.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Is Father’s Day a DJ Holiday?
- Thread starter Travel memoir21
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
HaleyBaron
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 25, 2021
- Messages
- 2,760
- Reaction score
- 2,339
I don't care for holidays except Halloween cause women stop holding up a front.
FlexpertHamilton
Master Don Juan
Yeah they don't even pretend anymore lol.
"What are you going to be for halloween?"
"I'm gonna go as a slut."
BaronOfHair
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Feb 14, 2024
- Messages
- 5,560
- Reaction score
- 3,037
- Age
- 37
Got mine a card. My take on all these days are similar to the thoughts expressed by @HaleyBaron :
Whatever good intentions are behind them, they give us an "out", by allowing us to FEIGN compassion for one another a few times a year, rather than actually practicing such virtues on a daily basis
Whatever good intentions are behind them, they give us an "out", by allowing us to FEIGN compassion for one another a few times a year, rather than actually practicing such virtues on a daily basis
corrector
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Oct 12, 2009
- Messages
- 10,398
- Reaction score
- 4,068
Used chatgpt to help organize both my father's birthday and Father's day the next day. For my dad's birthday, I got him a card, wished him happy birthday and sang for him on his hospital bed (in home), gave him chips (he likes), bag of chcolates, and then went out to an organic store 20 minutes out got a Tiramisu and Stacked oragnic burger. Brought it home, dad enjoyed both, especially the burger. He also had Chicken Chattora (sp?) (meals on wheels dish), and overall it was a fun day celebrating my dad's 82nd birthday!
Also brought fruit from the orgnaic store for him.
The next day, I bought him a Happy Father's day card, chips, chocolate covered cookies where shared in morning, my Aunt visited and got him a huge cheesecake with 2 candels he blew. Gave dad a hug and passed a hug from my mom who is also immobile and in a different room in the home so they can't both see each other like that.
Anyway, I think AI was helpful in encoruaging me to get out to get these things for dad especially when the day seemed tight and I was worried I won't be home with a PSW visit...it encouraged me not to worry about it and just get what I need to move the day forward, which I did.
Am grateful both of my parents, over 80 and advanced in age, are both alive and am doing my best to take care of them both, but it's not easy. Hoping dad will be here the next birthday/Father's day as well as we never know which one of those days might be the last. Today is what I have to work with. Tomorrow is never guaranteed.
Also brought fruit from the orgnaic store for him.
The next day, I bought him a Happy Father's day card, chips, chocolate covered cookies where shared in morning, my Aunt visited and got him a huge cheesecake with 2 candels he blew. Gave dad a hug and passed a hug from my mom who is also immobile and in a different room in the home so they can't both see each other like that.
Anyway, I think AI was helpful in encoruaging me to get out to get these things for dad especially when the day seemed tight and I was worried I won't be home with a PSW visit...it encouraged me not to worry about it and just get what I need to move the day forward, which I did.
Am grateful both of my parents, over 80 and advanced in age, are both alive and am doing my best to take care of them both, but it's not easy. Hoping dad will be here the next birthday/Father's day as well as we never know which one of those days might be the last. Today is what I have to work with. Tomorrow is never guaranteed.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.