"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Is Dancing AFC behavior?
- Thread starter Derek Flint
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Ol'BlueEyes
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Dancing is DJ; just bopping from side to side can be AFC, especially if you're alone and trying to pick up women on the floor.
Derek Flint
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Originally posted by payaya
not dancing is AFC behaviour. Standing around like an idiot is AFC!
Some of you make it sound like its either dance or stand around being an AFC.
One can go to a club, not dance and still approach.
Personally, I prefer the pub type atmosphere that has no dancing - the women there are there for a reason, and one of them isn't to dance.
And one can actually carry on a conversation without having to yell over the music.
Perhaps a better question would have been is dancing Alpha behavior?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
oakraiderz2
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Da Realist
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True Dat...:rockon:Da Realist said:
Vanilla
Senior Don Juan
You're in the wrong place. Mine has more women than men most of the time.Bonhomme said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.