"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is Alcohol a Truth Serum?

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It is partly true, partly exaggerated.

While people, who lose their inhibition by the effects of alcohol, will say what is on their mind more freely - what is on their mind does not have to be the truth.

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When people do dumb things after drinking, they often "blame" the alcohol, as if it has some magical powers embedded in it that make women get up on tables and take their tops off. The alcohol has no such powers, otherwise I would do that after getting drunk. But I don't. I do other stupid stuff. The point? Only that alcohol brings out things from within you that are already there.

If after drinking a lot, your GF starts to boldly flirt with other guys, and her panties come off much easier, believe me, those feelings are in there, and likely being repressed. Alcohol is the facilitator. In that sense, it can be a good test. Go to a bar with your GF, get her a few Gin and Tonics, and then OBSERVE. Does she become a different person, one who might now have a knack for getting random guys to sit next to her WHILE she is staring deeply into your eyes, or does she simply want to fall asleep, and ask YOU to take her home so she can crash? The answer is important to your long term future with this woman.
 
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