"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Is age really a problem?

nvictor

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Hello fellas.

Do you think age matter? A girl said to me "Maybe you're young..."
Well she thought I was 24 or up. I'm 20.

I'm afraid I'll lend in the friend zone. I have to do something, but
what? Help me
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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vorbis

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for some girls it is a problem. Some guys say that with enough game you can overcome this. I figure for a girl who considers it a problem, you'll need to keep her IL very high for her to forget about it. Rememebr it might not just be you and her, her friends could be teasing her if she's going out with someone significantly younger than her.
 

Nighthawk

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Tell her your Indian spirit guide says you have heap big previous life experience.

Then bust on her for being old.
 
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