"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is a woman who hyphenates her name narcissistic?

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I read about this idea, and it makes sense. It seems that a woman who is well-balanced will not feel a need to toot her own horn, so to speak, and will go into a marriage understanding that the social convention in that a wife takes her man's name.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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This should be one of the tell-tale signs that if a woman insists she keeps her last name then it is expected that she will probably be a ballbusting b1tch who will try to argue and win her way in a marriage.

20 years ago this was almost unheard of (any woman suggesting that would have been labeled a feminist and be shunned by men), but the more you let feminists women change the traditional roles and customs of marriage, the less likely it will succeed.

They should rename "Marriage" something else like "Herriage" becuase now a days its all about making the woman happy by putting her wants (what feminists brainwashing her wants) ahead of her husband in which neither will be satisfied with the results.
 

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lol

I know a woman, not bad looking actually.. i'd hit. anyway, she' met this guy, let him on, got knocked up by him and as soon as she was pregnant, she let him go and told him to get lose.

baby came out and of course he has the hyphen name.


I mean the wife is bad enough but the KID

If my fiancee ever thought about doing some **** like that i'd slap my **** out out and knock her out the nearest window.
 

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It is worse. She's a feminist.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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backbreaker said:
lol

I know a woman, not bad looking actually.. i'd hit. anyway, she' met this guy, let him on, got knocked up by him and as soon as she was pregnant, she let him go and told him to get lose.

baby came out and of course he has the hyphen name.


I mean the wife is bad enough but the KID

If my fiancee ever thought about doing some **** like that i'd slap my **** out out and knock her out the nearest window.
I know a scenario like this too. I know a woman just like your story, and I DID hit a couple times but I wrapped it up. The next guy knocked her up and she dropped him after she got knocked up and now collects his check every week. I think she planned it like that. It's sick.

She gets her needs filled, a baby and an extra check and then hunt for a beta daddy. What does he get?

You'll never know if your fiancee is thinking that until it happens.
 

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no this woman is actually pretty well off. not rich but she's not at the point where she needs baby daddy checks. if i had to take a stab between 70-90 a year.
 

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backbreaker said:
no this woman is actually pretty well off. not rich but she's not at the point where she needs baby daddy checks. if i had to take a stab between 70-90 a year.
Sweet. Can a guy get child support payments from a woman? I've never heard of this but has it ever happened?
 

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Bluntmaster said:
Sweet. Can a guy get child support payments from a woman? I've never heard of this but has it ever happened?
he makes more than her.
 

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backbreaker said:
he makes more than her.

I'd like to quit my job and be broke and knock up a few chics who make 50 grand a year. Will they pay me?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Bluntmaster said:
I'd like to quit my job and be broke and knock up a few chics who make 50 grand a year. Will they pay me?

Only if you have custody of the kids. It's called "child" support ya know. My buddy just got custody of his daughter. His crazy babymama has to pay him child support now. She hates it as she hasn't had a job in 5 years. It's not even half of what he was paying...but she's *****ing and moaning about it like its the end of the world.


as to the original question. It's such a trend now, most women don't even know why they do it. They do it because their friends do it. Sheep mentality.
 

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Espi said:
Well, only 2 types of people marry:

SMART women
DUMB men

While it's stupid for a man to succumb to the archaic, societal convention of marraige, a woman is smart to marry and take the man's name because when the marraige fails (50% of all marraiges end in divorce), the woman (usually)stands to get paid a lot of money.

So, a woman having to take a man's name in marraige eventually pays off--for women. She can always switch her name back after the marraige fails.
There's so many gems here, I hardly know where to start.

All men who marry are dumb? I guess if you were told by any men that they're having a very rewarding and enjoyable marriage, you just wouldn't believe them. You also presumably don't realize that in some marriages, the woman is monetary worth more than the man.

Your reverse claim is equally idiotic; All women who marry are smart? Most men aren't worth marrying. The benchmark man is broke, overweight, and going nowhere. Guys, some of you seriously need to get over yourselves. It's quite hard to get raped in a divorce when some of you only have 2 things of value; that being jack and s***.

I was delightfully entertained by your claim "when a marriage fails" immediately followed by an acknowledgment that only 50% of them do.

Finally, who does he chose to honor with a quote in his sig? Yes, you guessed it..... a "DUMB" married dude.

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It's quite hard to get raped in a divorce when some of you only have 2 things of value; that being jack and s***.
This is very true. However, as I've said elsewhere, if you have children it's a different story. You're probably going to have to pay from future earnings, and if you don't get a job to pay the support you may go to jail.
 

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zekko said:
This is very true. However, as I've said elsewhere, if you have children it's a different story. You're probably going to have to pay from future earnings, and if you don't get a job to pay the support you may go to jail.
Women in iowa do not i have several friends who have sole custody and recieve nothing every state is different. Marry a rich woman and if you split you will get half of her possesions (my lawyer told me this when i asked if a prenup would save me if i ever got married again );)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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