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Is a coffee date okay for a first date?

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Or is that too generic/boring?

I'm still trying to think of an inexpensive option that's more interesting and action-ish, any ideas?
 

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If your goal is to simply get to know her better then a coffee date is fine.

If your goal is to sleep with her the day of the date, then you should go to her place, or invite her to your place.

Match your activity to your goals.
 
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CatB said:
If your goal is to simply get to know her better then a coffee date is fine.
If your goal is to sleep with her the day of the date, then you should go to her place, or invite her to your place.
Match your activity to your goals.
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Thanks.
She doesn't seem like the "f--k on the first date" kind of person, so I am just looking to get to know her, build rapport, tec, this time around.
We met at lunch, that's where I got her number and that's the only time we've met so far, so I'm wondering if it'll be a weak move to do a similar activity for the first date.
 
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Coffee then take her for a walk somewhere nice or something.

Works for me. Better than just coffee.
 
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