"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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IRose's Journal of Growth

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Day 1: Today I am currently on spring break and I've decided to make a change. Im going to do something I haven't done in a while. Talk to a brand new female and take things as far as possible with her. Last time I was talking to a girl was last summer and that was cool. However, I feel as if I'm on some type of unendable drought right now. Currently I have one female completely on my **** and she's actually attractive. I just don't see anything past ****ing her. She texts me everyday just about and eventually it gets annoying so I stop replying. Other than her, there's a few older girls at my school thar I'd like to pull. I'll go into detail about that later. Right now, I think I need to focus on getting more numbers because texting one girl gets annoying and none of the girls in my phone go to my high school.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Gonna be updating this tommorow since Im going back to school.
Hopefully talk to some new girls or something of that nature.
 

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Alright so today was normal except over the past few school days, this girl has been constantly starting convos with me. I beleive she's interested but she has a horrible sexual rep and people say shes a hoe. Its an option but I don't think I want to go down that road. I've done much better.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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