Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Intrest and attraction should be mutal...no?

Solomon

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Something that another member in this forum said is that, women want to be picked up, if a women is interested she will make it a whole lot easier for you. Something I've noticed is, I'm an intersting person once I feel comfortable around someone, when I go out on the field, I try to bring my best traits (or my best me out) right away. Something that i wanted to say though is this, when you talk to a chick and you asking her questions, telling a story, or whatever, and her body language is closed of or she is not asking questions back or giving you "ioi's" maybe she is not that into you. I think some of these guys focus to much on "creating" attraction and also interest, that we seem to forget that its a mutual process

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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oakraiderz2

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Of course it should be mutual, obviously...how else would it be?
 

MisterMcGee

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All girls are different. The type I'm into seldom make it 'easy' for you
 

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Some girls will be into you first, others will think of you as just another guy until you prove them worng.
 

MisterMcGee

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"will think of you as just another guy until you prove them wrong."
There we go, that's what I'm dealing with atm.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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