"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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RedSky

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I don't usually use internet dating sites for hitting on girls but due to the lack of girls in my life at the moment, I feel it's better to give it a try then do nothing I guess.

So straight to the point, I know that women get loads of messaging from guys on these kind of sites. There are the generic messages "Hi, how are you?" to the down right creepy messages and so on.

So I was wondering, who do you make yourself stand-out from everyone else with just a message?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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HedoRick

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Search for some of NaughtyNinjas POF threads. They will give you some ideas to help you beat out the competition.
 
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Some things you can do is:

1) Make sure your profile doesn't sound generic. (On my profile It says that I'm just interested in getting a drink and ****ing and chicks will email just to ask me why I would say that on my profile)

2) You have to contact a lot of women ( think about how much women you usually contact on there and times that by 5)

3) If the site has a place for you to leave a subject line write something that will

A. state something that is in her profile that will make her need to answer a question

ex. Subject line: "Hey why would you like cats instead of dogs?"

B. state something that will lead her to need to open your message to see the rest of what you are asking her.

ex. Subject line: "I read your profile and i was wondering if...."

4) When you send a message always end the message with a question so she can have something to answer when she responds to you.

There are a couple of other things that could help you out too. Just holla at me if you need more
 
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