Interesting Situation, I would love some help

[likeitlikethat]

So I have had feelings for this girl for a looooong time. I did everything the DJ way, so no AFC tendencies to worry about. Well, all my work paid off as today, this girl told my friend that she has feelings for me.

The problem?

She is not ready/doesnt want to be in a relationship. HOmecoming is on October third. WHAT SHOULD I DO? Any advice?

 

[jeffthechef]

well first..find out why she does't want a relationship..cause usually it's pure bull****...i've only had a girl say that to me once..and in my case and most of my friends' cases...it simply means the girl finds you attractive..but not attractive enough to go out with..

i'd say somethign like that if i wanted to be f-buddies with a girl..

but if she has a legit reason heh, then i still dont see the problem regarding homecoming..can't you still go with her?...she might want a rel. after that

 

[Deniska]

Shes either doesnt want a relationship with YOU, or you came on too strong and scared her off.

You need to find exactly why she doesnt want a relationship in general. Talk to her girl friends.

If you want to go to homecoming with her, just tell her, just as long as she doesnt feel pressured in having a relationship with you just because the two of you went to homecoming.