"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Interesting Protein Source

itishe

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My mom recently came back from Mazatlan, Mexico and she brought back some gum (Chiclets, etc) and she also brought back some peanuts. I looked at them and their Jalapeno peanuts and happened to read the back for nutrition information.

This is what I got:

One bag weighs 42 grams (1 serving)
210kcal
21g Carbs
and last but not least 9g protein

That seems very high to me for a small bag of hot peanuts.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Warboss Alex

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Peanuts are a legume - a complete protein but their amino acid structure isn't great. 21g carbs to get 9g of protein? No thanks. Interesting snack to sprinkle on salads, put in soups/chillis but no way should you use this as a protein source.
 

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Warboss Alex said:
Peanuts are a legume - a complete protein but their amino acid structure isn't great. 21g carbs to get 9g of protein? No thanks. Interesting snack to sprinkle on salads, put in soups/chillis but no way should you use this as a protein source.
Interesting - I've heard that nuts generally aren't the protein of choice. I thought it was just cause they are peanuts - didn't realize it had to do with them being legumes (which I never knew!)

I guess this means I should stop relying on beans also, correct? I love black beans, I cook and experiment with them all the time...
 

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Plant products aren't complete proteins - that is to say, they lack specific amino acids in their chemical structure. Muscle development requires complete proteins: meat, fish, dairy etc proteins.

Incomplete proteins can be combined to make a complete protein, such as rice and beans. Both have incomplete plant proteins but combined they give the full spectrum of amino acids. But you'd have to get a lot of carbs for a relatively low amount of protein, however complete. (rice = 10g protein, 80g carbs per 100g, beans is something like 5g protein and 12g carbs depending on the sort).

So use your beans as a good source of low GI carbs and fiber and vitamins, but not as a protein source. They're a good food choice in general but not for their protein.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

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