"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Mannnnn...I'm writing this post because of all the negative thoughts on chicks nowadays.

Who cares if they're flaky? Or any other word to describe the thing it is that is making "western" women insufferable.

They're here just like rain is here on earth.
It could ruin your day or even month but that's a personal problem. Forums, internet meeting grounds to discuss how low quality they are is not healthy.

Maybe some of us dudes grew up with little access to women and all their "craziness".
You do know that every month, they have like a bad flu mixed with a hangover and add a little pissing blood in there too.

I'm just saying....its gonna rain. Take an umbrella.

And they got half the population on their side too.



Now,
If you grew up witnessing a bunch of them then you're not affected.
True Asian chicks are more subservient, and Latinas are more crazy passionate jealous, white girls flaky, etc.


How many cowboys in here?
I think there's more internetty type dudes in here. More business types, daily working type dudes than ranchers, or even military.

Here's my hypothesis.
In the military, you adapt and failure isn't an option. There's no crying, at least outwardly. Inwardly you self soothe and adapt your mind and let go of emotions because emotions get people hurt.

Cowboys break horses and deal with nature's beasts. There is an art form to dealing with a creature you simply can't speak with logically. They also deal with a creatures emotional side. They bond with them and take command.
You don't give up on a stubborn horse and move on to another breed that's been broken in for you through years of evolutionary biology and other dudes that were there before you.

Point is....they're more scared than you are and it's irrational feelings making them flaky, etc.
They know it is better with us than without us. They see what the future looks like with bad plastic surgery and no real love to have in their forties.

Every woman wants to be loved.
Approach cautiously but still accept them with love regardless of their wild ideas. Ideas like thinking flaky is okay. It's not. It's rude and impolite. It's stubbornness to refuse to act like a normal person in society. They know it's right half the time because they show it to their boss, friend, mother, preacher, bus driver, dentist, nanny, etc.
They're just scared of cool guyz like you.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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