"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

Interesting night at work!

trans_am17

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 8, 2005
Messages
129
Reaction score
0
Age
39
Location
WV
Last night I worked nightshift and I was on register. We had some strippers that almost got into a fight, they were yelling at each other and one slapped the other. Also this one HB came in and was obviously into me. She came up to me and was like" So how the he!! are you doing (my name)?" She said it in a hot,flirty tone. And she hung around for a while and before she left she asked me how old I was. I said 18(which I am) and then I asked her how old she was and it turns out she's 25! Right before she left she "convienently" dropped something on the floor and bent all the way over revealing a nice black thong right in front of me. Our store sucurity guard said she thinks this girl is a stripper at this local club. Later I asked the guard(whos also a woman) why she thought the girl asked me how old I was- and she said she thinks the HB was interested in me-which means I'm not seeing shi**. Hopefully she comes back sometime. Or I might go out to the club and see if shes there. Any input appreciated.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Damian

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 13, 2005
Messages
440
Reaction score
3
Location
San Diego, CA
I'm not really into 24-year-old stripper pedophiles. But otherwise...do whatever the hell you feel like.

-Damian

PS: that was an exaggeration, but you get my point.
 
Top