Interesting Fun Approach Topics/Questions

[slickaz]

Ok here is what i need from you guys.

i want to hear from you masters of this art, what are
Topics/ Questions you ask on approach to keep things light
questions that spark interest
Topics or stories or facts you say that make them laugh and attracted to have more conversations with you.

The More..The better!.
im going out on saturday night and i intend to use some of what you guys post up here.

Thanks in advance..

 

[r0cky]

Ok to a degree it depends on the venue. But opinion openers work good in any situation except on the dance floor.
Questions about fashion are engaging. Such as what do they think about guys who wear purses/ fur coats/ eyeliner.
Damn I don't wanna dig into my secret arsenal... but yeah these are pretty fool proof.

 

[Miguel]

Hey man, only thing I can really tell you is it doesn't matter what you say as long as it's

Intresting... (you already know that.)

AND

You actually seem to give a **** about their response.

Something I actually kinda stumbled into recently with people, is if you don't seem to care, they are going to drop you like a sack of rotten fruit. Just ask questions you want to hear the response too, not just intresting questions. Get behind what you ask, seem to care, and then actually converse on it.

Example:
Who lies more; guys or girls?

I've asked this question many times, and I never get bored of the reasponse. However whem I first started I actually didn't care about their answer... the more I did it, the more natural it became, and as it did... the more reasponses I got. The real click though came on the day I stopped asking it as an "opener" and asked in with actual intrest in the answer.

 

[AKA FLEX]

I know people say it's the worst thing you can talk about on a first date, but I've had good success the last few months with politics, it being an election year and all.

I'll probably get 10 responses calling me crazy or an idiot, but I'm getting laid, so I don't care. Plus, talking about that stuff early on helps me weed out the liberal Democrats and the Obamaniacs, which I don't think I could stomach even for a night of sex (except maybe hate sex).

Also, if the girl is also passionate about politics and she happens to agree with your views, it's pretty much a guaranteed in.

 

[r0cky]

I know people say it's the worst thing you can talk about on a first date, but I've had good success the last few months with politics, it being an election year and all.

I'll probably get 10 responses calling me crazy or an idiot, but I'm getting laid, so I don't care. Plus, talking about that stuff early on helps me weed out the liberal Democrats and the Obamaniacs, which I don't think I could stomach even for a night of sex (except maybe hate sex).

Also, if the girl is also passionate about politics and she happens to agree with your views, it's pretty much a guaranteed in.

I think you have read the post wrong. He wants help on openers. I do see your point, if you're very passionate about politics you should go ahead and talk about it. But like you said, its good for a first date. or in mid game. When meeting you should probably steer away from topics that are time consuming.

 

[slickaz]

Thanks guys BUT!

ok so lets say ive approached and have opened up a 3 girl set.
theyre laughin etc.

what would be a good set of pre lined up stuff to talk about?
i dont mean word for word, i mean like a general high level idea of things that are funny to talk about but not too time consuming and not too deep.

just so i can get enough attraction for her/them to give me numbers.etc.

i know how to open a group but what i seem to be having trouble with now is going that lil extra 5 to 10 minutes of funny conversation to get her to give me her number.

also if you could give me some ways/lines to that could set me up for a number close eg
talkin about a specific place to eat.
Oh you like that place?
well put your number in my phone n ill ring you when im going there next.

that kinda stuff but i know i cant use that on every! girl..what in your experiences?

Poster above saying keeping secret stash: LOL! dont keep it secret man..share so we all get to have fun!

 

[AKA FLEX]

I think you have read the post wrong. He wants help on openers. I do see your point, if you're very passionate about politics you should go ahead and talk about it. But like you said, its good for a first date. or in mid game. When meeting you should probably steer away from topics that are time consuming.

No, I just wasn't specific enough in my reply. I meant "first date" or "first time meeting a girl."

Hell, an opener that has worked for me several times just in the last month has been, "So who you got in November, the old man or the Muslim?"

Has it also led me to rejection a few times? Absolutely. Obviously there are some chicks who hate it when some stranger wants to talk politics with them, not to mention I never make it far with the Obongo crowd (mostly by choice).

But like I said, I'm getting laid by doing this, so I'll stick with what's working for me. If it ain't broke, don't fix it.

 

[slickaz]

bump...
but ill post one up anyway.

i went out last night and used things continuing topics like:
to open:
- Hey ladies, are ya'll having a good night?
- Nice, well ya'll look like you dressed up for a show or smtn..nice jeans/purse/shoes etc..brings out the blue/brown/orange/ in your eyes..hehe
- So i was standing over there and absolutely had to come intro myself, ya'll looked like a fun group to talk to..
- so listen heres a question ive been wantin to ask a bunch of intelligent girls all day, i was reading in a magazine today that in todays world women lie more than men do...what ya'll think about that?
- hahaha really? you think men lie more?...ok so i think i can prove you wrong< to the one im interested in or givin me interest> come over here for a second <back to the wall> so, i did psych in varsity and learnt this technique where i can tell if you're lieng by feeling you're pulse and lookin into your eyes..gimme ur hands..
- wow that ring and your necklace match, they make ur hands look dainty...ok heres the rules of the game..
human lie detector test..
last question:
do you want to go on a fun filled, unforgettable romantic date with this tall dark handsome intelligent young man thats holding your hand.
<blushes>

lol it works.

anyway i ended it with, i have to go back to my friends but thank you for your number sweetheart ill call you about that unforgettable night we're gonna make..

enjoy your night it was a pleasure meeting you.

she giggled blushed and walked away to her friends

OK so i know that may have been kinda small game for you guys but i dont usually do this to randoms so last night was big for me just doing that.

anyway please post up more ideas to isolate and get numbers from them. what kind of conversations etc.

THANK YOU!