“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Intelligence and seduction

Wodinart

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A question for you guys: do you adjust your strategy for gaming women according to the intelligence level of the particular plate you're spinning? Do you play things differently (eg time until you sleep with them, time spent in comfort, types of mind games played etc etc) with a more intelligent HB? What about if the girl is all about looks and has no real brain? Or are all women basically the same from the point of view of the approach you take, regardless of intellect?

Let me know your thoughts.

Wodinart
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sandow

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Absolutely. I think one of the main things guys overlook is the ability to read girls. I think its one of the most important parts of your game. If your dealing with a brain dud, you're not going to want to talk about anything that's over her head. This happens to me a lot, when dealing with "simple" girls, you just want to just that, keep it "simple." Don't tell any jokes or use any humor she's not going to understand.

On the other hand, when dealing with brighter girls, then you can impress her with what you know. However it needs to come across very casually, not like your bragging. In fact I never bring anything up that may impress her on my own, I usually wait for her to ask a question or if she brings that specific topic up.

Anyhow, the majority of girls are dumb, especially the hot ones. With these kind of girls, just keep it very simple, don't overdo it on your knowledge. The reason for all this is because you need to create a spark or have chemistry. She, and you, are going to feel incredibly awkward if there is no relation. If your talking about things that are over her head, she's not going to be able to relate with you, hence creating no chemistry. And she'll probably write you off in her head. So if you need to dumb it down, do it for the sake of you guys building rapport and having many things in "common."
 

phenomenom

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Sandow said:
Absolutely. I think one of the main things guys overlook is the ability to read girls. I think its one of the most important parts of your game. If your dealing with a brain dud, you're not going to want to talk about anything that's over her head. This happens to me a lot, when dealing with "simple" girls, you just want to just that, keep it "simple." Don't tell any jokes or use any humor she's not going to understand.

On the other hand, when dealing with brighter girls, then you can impress her with what you know. However it needs to come across very casually, not like your bragging. In fact I never bring anything up that may impress her on my own, I usually wait for her to ask a question or if she brings that specific topic up.

Anyhow, the majority of girls are dumb, especially the hot ones. With these kind of girls, just keep it very simple, don't overdo it on your knowledge. The reason for all this is because you need to create a spark or have chemistry. She, and you, are going to feel incredibly awkward if there is no relation. If your talking about things that are over her head, she's not going to be able to relate with you, hence creating no chemistry. And she'll probably write you off in her head. So if you need to dumb it down, do it for the sake of you guys building rapport and having many things in "common."
Wayy to put it bro. I agree with most of your stuff. When talking to girls, you gotta know what type she is. If she got a brain, then you gotta put some thoughts into what you're saying.

But outside of talking, emotionally and physically i see that all girls are the same. If you can get herr attracted and stay cool, then it won't matter if she got a 35 or a 10 on her ACTs. Her feelingss will overtake her logic anyday.
 

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The smartest girl I ever got was also very easy...she liked me after like 10 minutes. :D
 

SrDedosRapidos

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Personally, I can not fvucking stand dumb girls. If I meet a girl and she is a moron I lose all interest.

I value intelligence and the ability to hold up a deep conversation. I will never sacrafice these values for a girl, no matter how hot she may be (unless she is famous :D ) I like more intelligent women because it is easier to actually make a connection than to just fake it until I have her.

I can't stand "dumbing myself up" just to try and sleep with a hotter woman. I will sleep with an intelligent 7 before a dumb 9 any day of the week. Dumb women are of no value to me. Having said that, I don't think initially it makes a difference how the game is played. When you first meet someone you have no idea how intelligent they might be. After you have established their level of intellectual depth, I would say that yes, different strategies should be used. You're not going to use your knowledge of celebrity gossip to try and talk up a physics major.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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For me how smart a girl is plays into how attractive I find her. Just personal preference, but if a girl comes up with funny or clever conversation stuff....then I'm working harder to keep MY cool!! Lol. For instance this one HB I sorta thought was hot....I started talking to her and found out we both like the Gorillaz...wow her hotness just shot up for me!! But this is just personal preference. I guess I'm lazy and get bored with putting up with a girl who can only talk about, sex alcohol drugs or w/e.

To me its an added bonus if a girl is REALLY smart, and stays on her feet, because that usually comes hand in hand with the girl being a solid mama who can stand her ground....but this gets annoying cuz usually the game is flipped onto me!

I guess I'm with SrDedosRapidos, although it isn't that I refuse to **** HOT stupid girls, its just I can't get myself attracted to them. If they're f*cking dense, then I lose interest..I will say that putting up with dumb girls is annoying as hell, for me.
 
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