"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Instincts

Caveman

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I think people should be more in touch with their instincts. Have you ever noticed your dog just mounting that b!tch?
Look at what humans have to do to be able to get some. Wine, dine. Be nice. Play games. Guys are willing to change everything about themselves just to get some. Why? Because it's an instinct. It's in their nature!

Well.. Guess what? It's in women's nature too!! Yes! They want to have sex just as bad as us guys. They are just better at hiding it in order to get what they want. Why do we have to play games to get what we want??

My guess is that women know they have the power by hiding their need for sex. You can see them using that power everywhere you go.
A chick wants you to buy her a drink? She's using you. She knows you'll do anything. Guys give girls rides anywhere they wanna go. They listen to their crap stories of how this jerk abused them and maybe even give advice as to how to change this guy. Just to get her to like him enough so she'll sleep with him.

The worst thing though is that there are so many desperate guys out there that women will always feel in charge. They can make a guy do anything if they make him believe he'll have sex as a reward.

Well, stop wasting your money and your time guys! YOU wanna be different! Let those girls know that you aren't gonna lick between her toes cause she wants you to. You are not gonna run around and be her puppydog. You ain't taking her out to a restaurant until after you had sex with her. Let her know you aren't playing her games. If she wants to be with you, she's gonna have to prove she is worth your time and effort.

Then.. instinctively, she'll be coming after you. That's right! She'll be chasing you. Desperately trying to control you and secretly hoping she won't be able to. Because you are different! You might be the one for her because you won't fall for her crap. She won't be able to manipulate you. So here's a guy for her that can show her the world. The guy that can make things happen for her. Because he won't put up with any crap. Not from her, not from anyone. Her instinct will tell her to stick with this guy as he will be able to protect her and her offspring. And because of his genes, her offspring will have a bigger chance to stand up for themselves as well. This gives her genes the biggest chance of living on. It's nature guys! And she is not even aware of this.

I know that nowadays girls don't really think like that. They are not worried about their kids having the best genes but believe me, it's still in their natures! Their instincts. Since most of them aren't even aware of this, they tell us that they would like a nice guy instead of a 'jerk'. They tell us they want a guy that treats them right. And all the while they're looking for the non-controlable one. The one that does treat them nice actually, but won't bow down to her stupid tests and games.

So you see, they are not trying to fool us. They would tell us what they want if they KNEW about it. But they don't.

I hope you will think about this and let it sink in. Then you might take advantage of the fact that -even though the girl doesn't- YOU know what girls want!

Go out and get some!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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jiza101

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How do i show this chick i THINK wants me that i dont need her, and that i am independent. She sits with me in maths class on a desk up the back on our own. I need to subtly express my independence, she always laughs, and does silly ****, like stick a whole red skin in her mouth.
 

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do this by not chasing her, not showering her in attention and not phoning her 24/7, basicly do not be clingy and show that you have a life and there are other girls that you could have
 
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