"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Love the way he puts her in her place on the dancefloor...how he's so sure he can get her when he tells Manolo in the car afterwards "The eyes, chico, they never lie"...
He just doesn't give a sh!t haha, just goes for the makeout aggressively when he's with her in the car, then she rejects him but he just shrugs it off and puts her hat on, looking silly (she constantly puts up her bytch shield and acts like she finds him unattractive but now he makes her smile and laugh, she clearly doesn't want to but she just can't suppress it. He's getting to her...)
Later on, he goes up to her at the swimming pool and tells her straight up what he wants from her but he oozes confidence all the time and is 100% sure of himself, the possibility of her rejecting him doesn't even cross his mind.
Basically, he acts with confidence and controls the frame everytime he interacts with her. It's not about WHAT he says but HOW he says it and how he carries himself. Check it out!
