"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Inspiration: 30

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From: http://mirrorofthesoul.blogspot.com/

30 is a great age.... you can date an incredibly sexy 40 year old woman AND her 20 year old daughter, if you choose. And...women hitting their 30s are far more interested in sex than those in their 20s (their hormones begin to shift and their testosterone level begins to rise to one hundredth of man's, but it is enough to make her far more randy in her 30s than her 20s -- so say the researchers.)

It is the last decade before little physical problems begin to creep in, but not horribly so. The knees are still good, but you notice them. Wholesale slowing down is still decades off but staying up two days in a row become a little harder. And in a few years you're eligible to be president.

If I had to choose an age to go back to, and to stay permanently, 35 would be it. No longer a youth, but not aging either. It is a time when one starts to become internally settled, one begins to know who you are, and 20 year olds start to become kids. Thirty really is a good age. Indeed, the 30s are much better than the 20s. Your adventure is just beginning.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Have you notice these price tags? They rarrely say $10 or $100.
They say $99.95 or $9.95.
In the same way I felt much better when I was in my 20s. But when you are 30+ you may feel the same feeling when you are looking at a different price tag: there is a huge difference between $9.95 and $1.05 in terms of perception.
Human psychology is odd: to be 28 is much much better than to be 32.
 

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Re: Re: Inspiration: 30

Originally posted by al77
Have you notice these price tags? They rarrely say $10 or $100.
They say $99.95 or $9.95.
In the same way I felt much better when I was in my 20s. But when you are 30+ you may feel the same feeling when you are looking at a different price tag: there is a huge difference between $9.95 and $1.05 in terms of perception.
Human psychology is odd: to be 28 is much much better than to be 32.
I think thats why alot of people have their mid-life crisis when they go from 29-30 / 39-40 and so on.
 

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Re: Re: Re: Inspiration: 30

Originally posted by Bourne
I think thats why alot of people have their mid-life crisis when they go from 29-30 / 39-40 and so on.
...Checking my watch for my midlife crisis countdown....

Yep, right on schedule... :p
 

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Inspiration: 30

Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
...Checking my watch for my midlife crisis countdown....

Yep, right on schedule... :p
Haha, how did you handle 29-30. What went through your head and so on.

I'm curious, I'm 26 and soon enough I'm going to be 30.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Re: Re: Re: Inspiration: 30

Originally posted by Bourne
I think thats why alot of people have their mid-life crisis when they go from 29-30 / 39-40 and so on.
Seem odd but true.

Ever noticed how most of females shop?
"I got 50% discount! wow! thats a great deal!"
And she will never even try to think and figure out what is the normal, regular price of the item.
"I got 70% discount! I am saving money!"
Oh yeah, sure...especially when that 30% is almost double of the regular price of that item.
But this is relativlye clear case: they were brainwashed.

I can't remember how I felt on my 10th birthday.. but 20th was not that awful or great. Although 30th is supposed to be sad anyway. Why? What kind of magic number we have in out heads??
 
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