"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I drive an 87 Dodge Dakota in fair condition, it could use a tune up with no radio/CD player, or heat.Do you guys believe that your whip is an important factor with chicks or is it another minute insecurity?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yah... don't worry about it. Do the best you can, where you can. If you can't buy a better ride... then don't worry about it. If you can be a better lover... then definately worry about it! :-D
 
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if you want a high maintenence good looking girl then your whip does matter.Usually the good looking ones are materialistic. they think they deserve the finer things in life. Before I was driving a 98 VW passat for a couple of years its a cool car i didnt think too much of it but girls were like "this is such a nice car." I was like whatever. Then dumb old me I bought a 2005 benz and girls just go crazy over that sh1t. They just come up to you and say whatever. A nice car can only take you so far though. I broke up with my gf and got pissed so i bought the benz. She saw it like a week or two later and was basically like we should get back together. My intent wasnt to pull her back it was to get a better gf. So got back with her moved in and now we arent together despite the fact I have the nicest car she has ever been in. What dudes shes fvcking right now she probably sizes their cars up though. shes probably like yea he has a 05 benz.
 
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no way. there will always be a richer guy with a faster car.
you should MAKE FUN of those slick guys with expensive cars.
impress her by being hilarious and super fun to be with.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I've got two cars far apart on the appeal scale. One is a '88 Honda thats seen better days (work and back car). The other is a Lexus. Now I've taken girls out in both cars, and for me anyway, they really don' care to much about which car I take. They are happy to be with me, regardless of the car we're in.
As Frivolousz21 said, don't worry about it at your age.
 
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There could be two identical guys same look, style, sense of humor, The girl will go to they guy with the nicer car
 
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