hey,
just a quick question looking for a quick answer.
there's a pretty cool chick i met online briefly. the next night i see her at a restaurant but didn't realize it was her. i talk to her later online and get her number. i get her on the phone for a bit and she's a really cool girl.
anyways... i've been having trouble progressing things with her. i tried to get her on teh phone again, but she says i "intimidate" her. she says i am very confident and dominant... and that she is very shy and insecure. she goes off saying "i don't see why guys would like me", etc.. and that "guys dont approach me.. they steer clear of me". this girl is VERY attractive... she's 5'11 and polish, and has guys hitting on her constantly online.
my problem is getting her on the phone again and setting up plans. i usually try to get her to the phone to real life very fast.
what should i do about the insecure ones? i'm trying to avoid playing the "therapist" role.. but it's hard when she complains about it. anyways, any suggestions? how can i make her feel more comfortable, etc?
thanks!
just a quick question looking for a quick answer.
there's a pretty cool chick i met online briefly. the next night i see her at a restaurant but didn't realize it was her. i talk to her later online and get her number. i get her on the phone for a bit and she's a really cool girl.
anyways... i've been having trouble progressing things with her. i tried to get her on teh phone again, but she says i "intimidate" her. she says i am very confident and dominant... and that she is very shy and insecure. she goes off saying "i don't see why guys would like me", etc.. and that "guys dont approach me.. they steer clear of me". this girl is VERY attractive... she's 5'11 and polish, and has guys hitting on her constantly online.
my problem is getting her on the phone again and setting up plans. i usually try to get her to the phone to real life very fast.
what should i do about the insecure ones? i'm trying to avoid playing the "therapist" role.. but it's hard when she complains about it. anyways, any suggestions? how can i make her feel more comfortable, etc?
thanks!