Inner Game

[Sart]

Okay, so, I did write a piece about inner game but it was pulled from the forum. I think it may be because of a person I quoted, not sure, but I will attempt to post again without referring to a third party. I am responding to a few gents who asked me to post regarding Inner Game in PM.

Anyway, here goes. When a junior starts to work or me, they often ask "How did you get to where you are?" My answer was always "I just made the decision". Now, I basically always answer queries from the basis of "self improvement" and I do stand by that. I do however believe that it goes one step deeper.

I have always flinched when we start telling someone who obviously has NO CLUE, that he should cold approach or try c&f or kino etc. Its like giving a 4 year old a knife and saying "Go ahead, cut". I believe that working on your looks, your stature, your build, your career etc, is much more attractive than remaining the slight little nerd you are but "touching" the girl. Or coming out from behind your computer and trying to be ****y and funny when you are just geeky and irritating.

Anyway, the belief I have is that you must literally make the decision to BE what you want to be, not ACT it, BE it. Truly BECOME what it is you seek to be. It is really simply a decision. What goes wrong in here is that dudes are looking for methods to ACT like a DJ, in order to get laid or get an LTR or whatever. Eventually an act will fail, because you simply cant at 24/7. So, if you attract a girl on an act, you will lose that girl when the act fails you. You need to BE the DJ or whatever it is you requre. It is a big step, but anyone can do it. Remember this however. If you want an LTR or "that oneitis girl" and BECOME a DJ, that girl probably wont appeal so much anymore to you. WHY? Because at your core you will no longer suffer that oneitis etc. that has been plaguing you.

I am paraphrasing a mate of mine a little here and I would have liked to give him the respect of mentioning his name, but I dont think the gents who run this site appreciate it if I do.

Most successful people dont act successful, they are successful, they never intended being anything else.

This post isnt as well written as I would have liked but its 10.30pm here and I have to go out and meet a friend for a bit, so, hope this is alright. By the way, this friend is a new fukcbuddy, I'll tell you about it later.

 

[Sart]

PS

Thats why we all laughed at the alpha dog video dude...it was so obviously an act. You just knew he would wee wee wee all the way home if he encountered a real alpha dog.

 

[zerocelcius]

If you are not an alfa male you can not just choose to be one. YOU will get confronted and broken if you try. Alfa males are very very dominate and one step away from being gay....why is that because they care so much about men...mainly themselfs, but also other men who are in their domain. DON'T look at an alfa male they will attack.

The alfa male sterotype is cool he is in charge and very powerfull.

But the Real Alfa Male is aggressive, contoling, and Loud.

Besides we all lie, and act, and pretend. Everysince we were little we have been searching for our Self-Identity. And when we find it we have reached Self-Actualization. Until than we are constantly changing our self image and presintation.

It is the true hard facts of Nature VS Nurture. Not to pop your bubble because I agree with what you are saying but I think you have to be truthfull to yourself and understand that nomatter what you choose or work to be you can't change nature which is much more powerfull than nurture and you have to adapt and overcome those nature pre-sets. But just chooseing to ignore them and just work out and get facials is not going to actually change anything.

and how did you become a senior don so quick?

 

[Sart]

hey zercelcius

Yes, agreed, that was my point. acials etc are only part o the way to where you wanna be. The reality is, you must decide to BE a Playa, not ACT like a Playa. The whole alpha dog thing was a throw away, really we are interested in DJ/Playa status here.

So yes, I agree with you and you agree with me.

Anyway, this chick I met has a boyfriend, she is a businesswoman and her man is her partner. So, I am sitting opposite her not last Tuesday but the one before. Every time the phone rang he would leave for ten minutes and do his sales stuff. So, she is sitting there dressed in a skirt and low cut top. Whenever he left she would start with the eye contact, followed by the look away with hand twirl in the hair. When he would come back she would sit up and be very businesslike. Anyway, after a couple of hours she did the sit back and part the legs number and smoulder those eyes.

So, when I had to leave I waited for him to pisss off and gave her my mobile number. I told her not to give it to anyone, it is private. Then I grabbed her shoulders and told her that she will do well now that she has me on her side.

She rang me THAT AFTERNOON and said she required a little help at her home with her system. I reminded her that I simply dont touch system work so I would send one of my team. She giggled and said that I knew what she wanted.

Anyway, in 11 days, I have visited her 4 times for just straight sex, hardly any talking. The, when I see her at her office we act all professional, then, next night...boom. She is fukcing wicked this chick. I know she doesnt want to leave her boyfriend thank God, so my exit should be clean. My project ends in about two weeks, so I will wind it all down then.

Here is the catch. She is 50 years old. She has perhaps the best body I have seen. She was a stripper when she was in her twenties. Amazing what plastics, not having children and being really into your own body can do for a woman. I never thought I would be so turned on by someone her age. I nearly fell out of bed when she told me her age. She looks so young, but man, does she know what she wants.

I have this other young chick, just broke up with her bf. She has been contacting me a bit, she said, and I quote "I'll get my people to contact your people and we will DO lunch" Funny beitch. Anyway, this chick is late twenties and just recently broke up with her bf. Says she doesnt want kids but loves to play with my kids. She was a high jumper on a scholarship in the U.S. actually. She now is an Attorney and is making more friggin money than me. I met her as a client as well, but we clicked. Then, when her relationship broke up, she stepped it up a gear.

I'll keep you informed how she works out. With her I used the eye contact again but also used the power position. She was in my office asking me the questions, paying for my time. So I played up that power transfer and then gave her a touch of humanity to show her I was interested in her, as a person. Actually, I really am interested in her as a person unfortunatley. I'll have to think her through a bit.

Anyway, hope the initial post makes sense to you guys. As for this post, it is NOT bragging, it is uplifting. I AM NOT a DJ, I am 37 this year, not great looking, just above average. I am not a Playa, just a bit confident. Trust me, if I can do it, most of you guys can as well. When I first joined this site I was hung up on a 22 year old, but it taught me something. It taught me that I could attract a 22 year old beauty. I cancelled my subscription to oneitis and went fishing for ALL THE OTHER 22 year olds. It hyas been a fun ride, and Im just gettin started.

Anyway, take care all and remember, aspire to BE a DJ, not ACT like one.

 

[zerocelcius]

I have to give you props for landing a Hottie Business woman in her 50's!!!! I don't know about anybody else but those business women are hott!!

And at the same time melting 20 somthing's with the fire of passion. You dog you!!

I am glad you didnt' take my reply wrong, and you are right that post was uplifting. Keep us posted and keep up the good work.

But I still want to know how you are a senior don....?