"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Inner game technique

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Basically your brain can't tell the difference between an imagined scenario and a real one.

Imagine a scenario that really intimidates you. Walk up2 it and do whatever. U feel anxiety right? Do detailed.

Now try this : imagine a guy who's insanely confident. The most confident guy. Imagine him for a few minutes. How he's just superior in confidence to everyone else. Now switch the frame to it being u that is this guy. Do u feel that confidence? Now focus on the confidence.

Tell yourself how your safe and chill.

Ok. So now do a scenario thats not too intimidating. And do this confidence trick again and then rerun the scenario. Now do it again and again.

Also tell yourself the whole time your rerunning the scenario how your confidence is increasing and how u respect and feel better about yourself constantly as you visualize the scenario moving forward.

This made me way more confident. Try it out. U can influence your confidence like this.

Also after u do this Imagine how confident u will b in 5 years. Now focus on that confidence that springs forward.

Hope this helps
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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