"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Inner game defined

Blackgame

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Inner game defined

Inner game is not confidence

Inner game is the source of confidence, attitude ego ect, but they are not one in the same.

Inner game is not one dimensional it has many things that affect it and make it grow. Just like outer game that has routines, dhv, push pull, and all that other bs, inner game has beliefs, our wants (or desires), our limits, the different sides of our personalities, ect. And just like inner game, one aspect might be gold while the other is crap from a cow.

I’ll use myself as an example: my beliefs are down pact not only do I believe that girls want me, I also have real world experience to further strengthen this belief. Now my wants or desires on the other hand changes just like how you should be changing your undies. (ewwwww) one minute I want to just have fun, be social, “work the area” no real sexual tension right away…. Then other times I want my body oozing with sexuality and I want to walk up to the finest girl I can find put my arm around her waist and say “ I think you are beautiful and I want to get to know you better” and watch her melt in my arms from the sexual heat of our bodies touching. Is this a weakness? I don’t think so I just think it changes with my mood.

The thing is we have to work on all the aspects of our inner game to further our development as not only “players” but also as men and leaders of the world. This means we have to: work on our beliefs, figure what we want with women (for now), and figure out our weakness and our strengths. Working on these things will give you the by product of 1: confidence 2: techniques from “ in field” and the most important give you a better understanding of yourself so that you may one day help someone else.

To conclude, inner game is not confidence but rather the power source that drives it. Inner game has many levels that must be addressed in order to correct our inner game as a whole.

I hope this helps you guys

One love,

-Blackgame
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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