"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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initiating the f*ck buddy relationship.

lebRambo

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okay, i've done what a lot of you have advised me not to do (I really do appreciate all the help and the advice to the contrary, but i feel like this is something that I gotta try at least once in my life) and invited my ex over to 'watch a movie'. If your not familiar with my situation, I recently heard from a friend that my ex is interested in pursuing a fb relationship with me, but is too proud to admit it. Well, I think this is true since she was excited when I suggested the idea, and took the night off work especially.

So, when she comes over, if this is not just an open and shut case of watching the movie for a few minutes, making out, then having sex, what is the best way to go about initiating it?

Also, i know she likes porn, so maybe suggest we go watch the paris hilton sex tape in my room, cause y'know, its not too over the top.

suggestions?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Look if she really wants to just be a FB

When she comes over throw in a movie shut the lights off. Go sit right next to her.

Try some kino.

Make ec and just kiss her you'll find out real quick.


My FB is one of my best friends and it all started when we were drunk she says you know I'll fvck you... I say Lets go to Kroger and get some condoms.
 
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