Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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In your AFC past....

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To all fellow DJs:


Everyone has someone or something in their AFC past that they wish they had dealt with in their DJ way. So, if you could go back and be a DJ when you weren't, what would you change? WHo would you have made your moves on?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Good question. It will be interesting how many DJs still hold onto past situations and regret not taken different actions.
 
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Most important "DJ" thing for me

Is knowing when to throw a relationship away. I had two relationships where my instinct was to dump the girl and I actually moved to do it.

Then changed my mind.

In both case the instinct was right.

Also DJs have a much lower tolerance for crap. Therefore they get less even if it means being alone. Women respect this in a profound way.
 
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we've had threads like this before, that I'm pretty sure are in the archives if you care to take a read.

So If you wanna post on this, take a trip over there and have a lookskies.
 
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