"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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****in UP!! BAD. FML :/

Jair213

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Last week Thursday I was waiting for the bus at the bus stop chick who was also there was waiting for the bus stop. I sat down while reading something on my phone then I look slight towards were she was seating down and she smiled at me and I smiled back. And wtf do I do? absolutely nothing.:/

This is a diferent chick from the past ones ive talked about. so yeah Watt do you guys think about gaming a chick with a kid? I've being shopping at this other grocery store theres this gorgeous cashier easily an HB8. Everytime she sees me her eyes DIALATE wide open with nervousness and everytime I speak to her when shes cashing me out she could barely look at me she even looks down everytime she speaks to me while I try to maintain eye contact she cant do it. I have never met a girl that has being really submissive like this one. Even when she says ''hi with a smile she quickly looks down. Its so obvious she likes me but I notice all of this bodylanguage from her and that causes me to get nervous and I just freeze too and get nervous. fvcken pathetic I know :/ ive caught her looking at me countless times. even one time I pretended I was looking some were else and she literally stared at for like 8 seconds. and I do nothing.. ugh

I just cannot approach or open up like 80 percent of the time. I think its either social anxiety, or im just an introvert.

I was thinking of saying something like this to her in a playful way ..

''hey you know wat? I notice that you sometimes look at me like your about to kick my but, that's not very smart'' with a friendly smile at the end

any other ideas?

im 100 percent sure if I ask for her number she will give it. but since shes working I was thinking of just giving her a little piece of paper with my number in it and handing it to her
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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''hey you know wat? I notice that you sometimes look at me like your about to kick my but, that's not very smart'' with a friendly smile at the end
No.

Are you sure she isn't actually AFRAID of you?
 

zinc4

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about the chick in the grocery store....just look her dead in the eyes while grinning and hand her your phone when you are checking out and tell her to put your number in it...that is all that needs to be done and then call her up a few days later...
 

Jair213

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LongLostFriend said:
No.

Are you sure she isn't actually AFRAID of you?
lol funny but yeah hell no I know the diference I know how to read bodylanguage real good
 

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Jair213 said:
I was thinking of saying something like this to her in a playful way ..

''hey you know wat? I notice that you sometimes look at me like your about to kick my but, that's not very smart'' with a friendly smile at the end
what kind of **** is that stop dodging the question. Some small talk would give you better openers but if you catch her checking you out something more along the lines of 'hey, like what you see?' would be better. Part of the reason your nervous is because you cant even hold a NORMAL conversation with these girls nevermind asking them out. Also, cashier hand you a receipt right? flip it over and ask her to write her number down.

I would advise cold approaching chicks on the streets, bus stops, book stores and the like to build up your confidence. Practicing your game on a girl you see everyday isnt so smart, not that it really matters.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You obviously have no clue about Day Game. Roosh Day Bang would teach you.
 
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