In terms of looks, Does it hurt being different and unique?

[Canadien]

Ok, when I started these Don Juan path, I was pretty normal geeky guy, with almost no sense of style or self confidence for that matter..

http://picasaweb.google.co.uk/prash.gandhi/Prashant/photo#5155177959169616674

And in last 1 year, I've turned it around, so much that six months ago, girls and guys started complementing me on my looks, yet I wanted to go for even more unique and stylish look..

So, six months ago, I got a new look with Fedora, straw man hat, and then other more stylish clothes followed..
http://picasaweb.google.co.uk/prash.gandhi/Prashant/photo#5155177959169616658


And, last month I introduced Spiked hair style, with dark Burgundy color in the Middle, and I also got cool pendant and ring that my parents had saved up for me..so now I don't see many guys with the current trend that I am going through, is that normal? Do you guys think that this style hurts me or is this ok?
http://picasaweb.google.co.uk/prash.gandhi/Prashant/photo#5155177959169616642

Right now, I am able to close with very minimal effort, yet I don't want to give out the wrong impression, as my parents are freaking out, and are afraid that I'm gone ruin our trip back to India we'll be taking next month, where we'll get to meet loads of families and girls there..

 

[War Against Betaism]

There's nothing wrong with looking different, your steez is good enough my man. If you have a bad reputation though your style will be looked down upon. If you're popular and well respected then you're going to be even more well remembered because you sport a unique look.

 

[AFC Savior]

u look like a scared litte pvssy with no confidence

work on changing the LOOK on your face

 

[Stéphane]

The fedora didn't suit you, but that last picture was pretty good.

 

[Canadien]

That one

u look like a scared litte pvssy with no confidence

work on changing the LOOK on your face

Is work in progress, I was way way stiff to begin with, so ya my looks is tackled down, and now I'm working on being more playful, and learnning to let go of my Ego, I've been very serious all my life, so turning that aspect around is taking a bit more time, Yet I have made a commitment to turn this whole thing around so I will keep on march forward, and will keep on improving my Body language as I get more comfortable under social dynamics..

 

[SLY]

Well first of all, the fedora didn't go with outfit that you were wearing. Also, I would ditch that green jacket and opt for something darker. If you are trying to peacock, at least match. Otherwise, good effort - I mean at least you are trying.

 

[Bonafide]

Lmao, u look afraid of everything around you

 

[gruby]

all good. like indian girls, so go ahead and make us proud by shacking as many as possible.

 

[Johnny_Kage]

The second pic (with the hat) looks good. You look alpha.

The hairstyle looks fine, but like the other posters said, you need to match. And smile dude. Life's not that serious .

Also, stop caring so much about what others think of your appearance. If you to wear something, wear it (within reason of course).

 

[MacAvoy]

I think the 2nd pic is the best but I don't know jack about style. I personally think you've gone too far in the 3rd pic, but if you've got the game to back it up, then run with it. However I'm pretty conservative, depends on what works for you.

Regardless, your miles ahead of the first pic.


Go Habs Go

 

[Canadien]

Thing

I think the 2nd pic is the best but I don't know jack about style. I personally think you've gone too far in the 3rd pic, but if you've got the game to back it up, then run with it. However I'm pretty conservative, depends on what works for you.

Regardless, your miles ahead of the first pic.


Go Habs Go

Is I'm still learnning the game, yet I feel the most confidence in terms of seduction in the last style right now, and just to exaggerate I just learned to color the hair myself, so I'll be shocking quiet a lot of people when I go back to India..

For me I'm taking the approach of a rake, as Robert green defines in his book "The Art of Seduction," as I no longer look for validation or approval from others, and I have lots of confidence and positive outlook on life that I attract loads of people like a magnet, I am here to enjoy my time, so I'll do pretty much anything to have some fun, and I don't mind being different if thats what it takes to enjoy my life ..