"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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In Short Text..How do you guys pick up a girl?

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Assuming you dressed up and have the confidence with ya
here are the steps i am assuming to execute

1) Open using an opener
2) female to male interest using routines and Dhv's
3) Neg the target
4) After step 2 and step 3 you will wait for IOI's from your target
5) Than you will reward her by giving IOI's
6) Ask for her number


I am i Missing any thing, is this the right way to pick up.

I am sure lots of guys here are experienced and professionals, If you could share your insight i will really appreciate it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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There's more than one way to skin a cat and it's kinda best not to list it out in steps like u did ; in your head. Personally, what I do is use a situational opener to start conversation e.g if she's on her own I could say u look bored and then I follow on from there. The best thing to do after getting a response is carry on by talking about her as this is their favorite subject. In between that u can pretty much talk about topics that would interest a typical girl ( goodluck with that as it's hit and miss especially as people are different). While doing all this it's best to remain nonchalant and relaxed and pretty much uncaring of what happens. When u feel the time is right and that the girl is comfortable enough with you, u can then proceed to make an offer of a future hangout session but most times it's best to remain vague so as not to spook the girl out. Then ask the chick if there's anyway u can keep in touch. Voila u have a phone number or not. It's a "numbers" game. Goodluck....
 
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