"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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In need of crucial info...please help me FAST!!!

drak_ool

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Ok, here comes that time again.... After a few months of peace of mind (through the continuous use of condoms, none of which broke) I fu.cked up again. Met a virgin about a month ago, took her v-card (still using a rubber) then moved out of state.

She came to visit me over labor day weekend, when she told me she was on the pill for a condition she has (she showed me the box/card with missing pills so i figured she took it regularly). So we did it without a condom a bunch of times and I came inside of her most times.

Fast forward a week later, she s back in her home state, and texts me "gimme a call when you get a chance". I just started having a bad feeling. I reply "sup?" to which she replies "I had something to tell you". So I finally call her and she s not picking up. Now i don't know if she s playing games with me or this s.hit is for real.

Does anyone have some solid info on the chances of getting a girl pregnant while she is on the pill (and has been for 2 years)?

and please, no lectures guys, I feel like s.hit, been here before and I know it's no fun.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Jeffst1980

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If she has been regularly taking the pill CONSISTENTLY for 2 years, the odds of a pregnancy are extremely low. The problem is that many women don't take it consistently and wind up skipping days, then playing "catch up," etc. Even so, the odds are still low, but there's a risk nonetheless.

But more importantly, you said she called a week after you had sex. There's really no way she could know she was pregnant that fast. Hell, even if she was calling because her period was late, having sex a week before her period puts you just outside the fertility window.

Don't jump to conclusions--you're fearing the worst, and anything seems possible when you fixate on terrible thoughts. Just be careful and wrap it up from now on!
 

drak_ool

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thanks for taking the time to answer!

just talked to her, seems like she s been late on her period for about a week but she just took 2 pregnancy tests which turned out to be both NEGATIVE!

danger averted, 'til next time...
 
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