"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Men tend to forget that women are humans as well! We are all humans and pretty much share the same desires, reactions, phobias, troubles and many other things!

Before posting, thinking or acting on anything a woman may do always get in her shoes! Why did she act like that? Why would I act like that?

Of course it will not always be accurate because women think with their emotions rather than with their heads like we do, but sometimes it might be pretty helpful!

For example, I had this girl negging me since day 1! She either didn't like me at all, which would be odd since she didn't even know me, or she did like me but didn't know how to act! We ended up in bed! That's pretty much what a guy would do if he didn't know how to attract women! He would neg, tease or do anything to get her attention!

It's a golden rule in my opinion, always trying to understand why and what is she doing by thinking why and how would I do it! It applies to all matters and although again, it will not always be accurate, it can help a lot!
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DonJuanit0 said:
Of course it will not always be accurate because women think with their emotions rather than with their heads like we do, but sometimes it might be pretty helpful!
not true. I understand though cause you're a man and you'll never really know what it's like. It's crazy being female in a male world.
 

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lux1984 said:
not true. I understand though cause you're a man and you'll never really know what it's like. It's crazy being female in a male world.
You can't ask a woman if she thinks with her emotions Lok she obviously gonna disagree unless she's redpill
 

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DonJuanit0 said:
Men tend to forget that women are humans as well! We are all humans and pretty much share the same desires, reactions, phobias, troubles and many other things!

Before posting, thinking or acting on anything a woman may do always get in her shoes! Why did she act like that? Why would I act like that?

Of course it will not always be accurate because women think with their emotions rather than with their heads like we do, but sometimes it might be pretty helpful!

For example, I had this girl negging me since day 1! She either didn't like me at all, which would be odd since she didn't even know me, or she did like but didn't know how to act! We ended up in bed! That's pretty much what a guy would do if he didn't know how to attract women! He would neg, tease or do anything to get her attention!

It's a golden rule in my opinion, always trying to understand why and what is she doing by thinking why and how would I do it! It applies to all matters and although again, it will not always be accurate, it


You're just a white knight who doesn't know what he's talking about. Get some real world experience with women first then write your post bra.
 

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CJ 101 said:
You're just a white knight who doesn't know what he's talking about. Get some real world experience with women first then write your post bra.
I actually do have a lot of real world experience with women, but I am not here to argue with anyone about that! And I don't really care if you believe it or not!

The advice is given and if you don't like it I would rather see a real answer from you rather than a bitter comment! I'm fine with it though, anyone can judge for himself and take it or leave it!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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CJ 101 said:
DonJuanit0 said:
Men tend to forget that women are humans as well! We are all humans and pretty much share the same desires, reactions, phobias, troubles and many other things!

Before posting, thinking or acting on anything a woman may do always get in her shoes! Why did she act like that? Why would I act like that?

Of course it will not always be accurate because women think with their emotions rather than with their heads like we do, but sometimes it might be pretty helpful!

For example, I had this girl negging me since day 1! She either didn't like me at all, which would be odd since she didn't even know me, or she did like but didn't know how to act! We ended up in bed! That's pretty much what a guy would do if he didn't know how to attract women! He would neg, tease or do anything to get her attention!

It's a golden rule in my opinion, always trying to understand why and what is she doing by thinking why and how would I do it! It applies to all matters and although again, it will not always be accurate, it


You're just a white knight who doesn't know what he's talking about. Get some real world experience with women first then write your post bra.
This
 

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DonJuanit0 said:
I had this girl negging me since day 1! She either didn't like me at all, which would be odd since she didn't even know me, or she did like me but didn't know how to act! We ended up in bed! That's pretty much what a guy would do if he didn't know how to attract women! He would neg, tease or do anything to get her attention!
This is how it started with one of my exes. I worked with her. She wasn't very social, liked to keep to her own, but when I came around she would always give me the business for some reason. I'd come down by her office and she'd always have a comment about this or that, give me $hit about something, then sometimes I'd notice this coy grin on her face....and sometimes she'd just laugh. It wasn't until I picked up on her game and started giving her the business right back.... is when our relationship began :) Surprisingly enough, she ended up being one of the most mature, put together, women I had ever been in an LTR with.


Sometimes a girl acts this way to gets your attention because she wants you to step up to the plate. Of course it's a $hit test, so you can either get butt hurt at her remarks, or you can act like a man and respond in kind.

Girls do think with their emotions, and they do act in weird ways. Recognizing it and understanding it are key. :up:

Good post DonJuanit0
 
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