****in' *****es

[BigWillyStyle]

Alright this is pissing me off. It's been happening alot over the last couple of weeks and maybe you guys can shed some wisdom on what the **** is going on. I'll give an example.

Let me take you back to Thursday evening(January 27th) me and two my boys hit the clubs. I'm the designated d!ckhead so no drinks for me. We split at the club and I get chatting with these two other dudes and who both have a girle on their arms. They ask me if I got a GF and I say "no". So the one dude says "great, wanne meet one of my female friends who's also single?"

So I agree, he leaves and comes back 2 minutes latter with a cute blonde, quite gorgeous actually. Me and blondie take a seat privately on this big ass leather couch they have at the club, in a quiter room and get talking.

So we shoot the sh*t for about 10-15 mins or so. I didn't have the balls to start feeling her up though, lucky she did that for me. By playing with my hands then stroking my leg. Her fat chick friend came in though and said "I'm gonna puke I'm feeling bad, had too much to drink"(My Blondie was also a designated driver so she didn't have anything to drink)

So she appologized and said "before I go though, I really want to kiss you" so we're making out on the couch for another 5 minutes while fat chick friend is puking up her drinks in the toilets. Her fat chick comes back in and drags her off. Before she went though I asked for her digits. I got them no worries there. Thinking I'm onto something good since she iniated everything.

Fast forward to the present day, I called her up about 5 hours ago. We have some general menial chit chat on the phone for like 2-3 minutes, she says she had a great time on Thursday night with me.. blah blah blah.

So then I ask "Well, we should get together next week sometime and go ice skating, hows that sound?"

Her;"Oh next week? Well I'm really busy with work, since I just got back from holidays and my desk is piling up with work that needs to be done.., I gotta work weekends too, I don't know when I'm gonna have any free time, I'm really sorry Will"

Me:"Oh ok then, well what about the week after?"

Her:"yeah... uhhh I dunno, I'm reallly busy with work, I'm so sorry.."

Me:"Ok then, seeya"

Her:"Sorry, bye"

Click. Yeah she had a great time with me on thursday night she says, so great that she doesn't want to meet up ever again with me.

This is pissing me off, that was just the latest installment of a 6 part saga. It's happened 6 times in about 10 days. The girls will be all over me at a party/club, then when I get the digits and call a few days later they don't even wanna meet up for one god damn date!

This chick was not drunk or on drugs at the time either. So it wasn't liquor making her kiss me and stroke me. Girls, WTF?! If you iniated making out with a dude at a club/party, why the hell when I call back you are just "too busy with work" or some other lame excuse? Anybody know what's going on, why don't they want a follow up date ever even though they're all over me that night without me iniating anything?! *****es!

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

Originally posted by BigWillyStyle

Anybody know what's going on, why don't they want a follow up date ever even though they're all over me that night without me iniating anything?! *****es!

That's your problem right there. You're waiting for THEM to initiate. If you wait for the girl to initiate, it will lose the romance for her. Flush all the modern feminazi stuff down the toilet. With all the "equal rights" movements the feminazis have made, they still want a man to protect them, they still want a man to take control. It's a biological expectation.

So this is a possibility. They may be interested and make the first move...or all the moves. They may have fun that night, but that night will lose its glitter when it is all said and done because as I said, the romance will be gone.

It's hard to explain why they are like this sometimes, but consider this. The mentality girls have towards this idea of the man initiating is like winning a game with your friend/father who you know LET you win. It's not the same. It may feel good at the time, but in the end it isn't gooed enough for you.


OR, a very simple possiblity #2: They were just looking for a ONS. You know girls do this too sometimes.

 

[BigWillyStyle]

TilltheEndofTime, well yeah most of the time they were the ones that iniated it, but once or twice I put on the lead, the got the digits and yep, same old story. I can't believe out of all those girls that all of the only wanted a ONS, anyway thanks for the opinion.

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

I've heard this a lot with girls from clubs. If you're looking for a relationship, I don't suggest clubs.

 

[jprjrjr]

I love how girls bytch about guys never calling. When we do, they usually just flake anyway.....