In an awesome/threatening situation...based on how u see it!!

[j8snx1]

Hello DJ's!
I'm kinda new to the community so be nice!

Anyways, I am in a situation that can either make me or break me, and I would be really thankful if you guys can help me out here as soon as possible!

Scenario:
I got the number from the HB I like (using the DJ techniques :woo: ) and I gave her a call today. I suggested that we hang out during the Thanksgiving break, but her cousin from college came over so unfortunately, we can't do anything until next week. Here's the weird part:

She immediately responded with, "...We're JUST hanging out right?" (at this point I thought I said something wrong) and she said "Can I bring a friend?"

I was sort of hoping we hang out 1-on-1, but nonetheless this was an event that I had no control over ( or did I?). I've had some experience with taking a girl out and having flirty/fun conversations 1-on-1, but this seems either like a great opportunity to continue the use of C&F on both girls, ignore the girl i like a little bit, use neg-hits, or feel double the pressure.

Is it a bad sign that she invited a friend over? How could I use this situation as an advantage towards getting the girl I like to like me better and soon become my woman?


PS: I sounded like a total AFC, and I sincerely apologize for that.

THANKS FOR THE HELP!
-J

 

[AC/DC]

Originally posted by j8snx1
I got the number from the HB I like (using the DJ techniques :woo: ) and I gave her a call today. I suggested that we hang out during the Thanksgiving break, but her cousin from college came over so unfortunately, we can't do anything until next week. Here's the weird part:

She immediately responded with, "...We're JUST hanging out right?" (at this point I thought I said something wrong) and she said "Can I bring a friend?"

She feels uncomfortable with it being just the two of you.

Is it a bad sign that she invited a friend over? How could I use this situation as an advantage towards getting the girl I like to like me better and soon become my woman?

Normally, I'd say "f*ck this", but I think since you have nothing to lose, you might as well kick it with her and her firned, and show her how awesome you are.

 

[j8snx1]

yeah ACDC, ur right. I should just have fun with it since i really do have nothing to lose only to gain.

is she uncomfortable or insecure because I came in too strong? i dont think i mentioned that i've known her for about 2 weeks now.

she told me to invite a friend if i want to, but nah~ =) why not just fly solo and go out with a bang.

i will post up how things went after the whole fiasco!

til then gents.

 

[Sammo]

Focus on her friend, then watch her squirm for your attention

 

[Microphone Fiend]

Originally posted by Sammo
Focus on her friend, then watch her squirm for your attention

i was thinking the same thing...

Next time if she ASKS you can she bring a friend, and you dont want her to...SAY NO! That simple. If she blows you off after that, her loss.

 

[SevenOne9]

I would've played it off (although, depends on your style).

Kinda like this:

Girl: "We're just hangin' out right? Can I bring a friend over"
ME: "Whoa, whoa...whoa there, 3some already?! She'd better be hot AND have a nice azz...y'know what i'm talkin' about -- I'm pretty picky" *nudge* *nudge*

(ONLY if you know her to have a sense of humor...)

Display a more higher value and be the man both chix would wanna be with -- you can do what the other posters have said.

 

[j8snx1]

SevenOne9, and/or anyone else reading this!

how exactly do you display higher value? It's being a challenge and what not, but I still have trouble understanding that concept.


***AFC QUESTION ALERT***
Can you tell me some really effective ways to "show higher value"?