“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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In a Car at the Lights, girl game me heaps of Cmons and i froze

Peterpack

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Not a common scenario

i was at the lights and you know you look around to see who is in the car next to you. This girl was in the car, we smiled at each other then she started to wave at me frantically. I honestly just froze.

She looked like a HB 7 to 7.5 but you can't fully tell cos you can't see their full body

Anyone had any experience with traffic lights car pickup ? and what do you do ?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Peterpack said:
Not a common scenario

i was at the lights and you know you look around to see who is in the car next to you. This girl was in the car, we smiled at each other then she started to wave at me frantically. I honestly just froze.

She looked like a HB 7 to 7.5 but you can't fully tell cos you can't see their full body

Anyone had any experience with traffic lights car pickup ? and what do you do ?
You snooze you lose. You should have signaled for her to lower her window and say pull over somewhere or ask for her number quickly. Hand signaling you want to call her.
 

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ya, be ready for anything.

I was out in a fancy car one summer night and pulled into a 7-11.

I noticed this hottie in line in front of me. When I went outside I noticed
she was looking over the car and said a compliment and was giving me interested looks. (car or me, I dunno/beside the point) But I froze, instead
of offering to take her out for a quick spin and possibly something else.

damn.
 

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Don't beat yourself up, she most likely just wanted directions.
 

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She was probably trying to tell you about the person you'd been dragging under your wheels for the past three miles.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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lol too much thinking, if that was real just lower your window and see if she says anything, could only be she saying your door was open, to thinking you are someone she knows, or if she really wanted to talk with you, thing is you need to relax and act.
 
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