Egyptian dude 1
Don Juan
wouldnt this site be much better if we had live chats, something for the moderators to ponder about
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I_Eat_Playdough
Master Don Juan
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we do, look up top and click the link that says "chat"
At Last .
Another One like me From Egypt!!
hey....how is it goin?? how did u find the site??? how is djin????
i really wanted someone to share my thoughts and mind-sets learnt here from the same culture and traditions .
Welcome Dude.
Another One like me From Egypt!!
hey....how is it goin?? how did u find the site??? how is djin????
i really wanted someone to share my thoughts and mind-sets learnt here from the same culture and traditions .
Welcome Dude.
SoSuave.com
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Suggestions & Feedback forum.
machoguy123
Banned
yea but man the chat room never loads...
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
BallZ of SteeL
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hey HB_Hunter im egyptian too! do you have msn/icq so we can chat..
BallZ of SteeL
Senior Don Juan
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not bad..im still a newbie but im getting much better confidence/social , also waiting for college this year to start to do some heavy practicing
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