"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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TheGambino

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I'm a good poker player won and lost money. Lately I'm on a big down streak and when I'm losing I reach out to other games like roulette baccarat and blackjack. Trying to chase loses from bad beats in poker and end up losing more. Now I'm quitting for a long time to get back on track. What do you guys think of gambling and not being able to quit after getting these bad beats from worse players. This topic relates to my inner game and confidence and overal mood.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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TheException

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I myself am a good poker player and I love the casino as well.

Biggest thing for you is to be playing with a "bankroll". Its all about money management and accounting for the "ups and the downs". If your bankroll is to small you will go bust and end up becoming undiscipline and losing more money..

PM if you need additional details on anything.
 

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I was really into playing blackjack in Vegas in my late teens (fake ID) and early 20s. Never really won or lost that much until one particular new year's eve when I dropped over four grand. I was 22 so it was a brutal loss that set me back for a long time.

The next time I went to Vegas, I sat down at a blackjack table and lost around 15(!) hands in a row. No exaggeration. After that, the fun was just completely gone. The good feeling of playing was replaced by complete anxiety at the prospect of losing even a 5 dollar bet. I didn't gamble at all for years after that.

Recently I went on a local gambling boat for a birthday party, and decided to play a bit. The anxiety was still there, but at a much lower level. While I was playing, I decided that if I felt myself starting to bet emotionally instead of logically that I would walk away from the table for awhile and return later.

I ended up winning a couple hundred over a couple hours of casual play. Nothing crazy, but paid for the whole day and then some.

I know blackjack is a lot different that poker, but I thought the logical vs. emotional was interesting relative to your thread.
 
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